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second chances (i really need advice!!!) srry so long
my best friend 15 and her ex 15 me 14 and his best friend 15 please help i really need advice!!!!
ok my best friend and her bf broke up really harsh her parents didnt want them together so her parents warned her to stay away with him and they set me and his friend up on a date and we were at the date and her mom found notes from her bf saying how we were all goingto meet at the movies. and came and caught us.so then her parents found out all this stuff about them having sex and her sneeking out to see him and her and her bf. so the skool said they couldnt be together snce they got in a big fight about her parents finding out and they talked about how much they hated eachother and before she would yell at him about stuff and he would still try to get together but recently his new gf after 2 weeks broke up. welll recently my best friend came ovr and we talked about him and she told me how much she missed him and having him close to her. then she turned on "im lost without you" but blink 182 and started rying because that was there song. and i felt soooo bad for her. i really want them to get back together because they were perfect for eachother. until his friends came in saying shit and they smoke pot and her bf got into it and thats when the problems started. but he stoped for her but she didnt go back to him ehich i felt really bad about. and i asked her my she would yell at him all the time if she still loved him and she said she'd rather yell at him then cry in front of him . and we started crying the whole night she came ovr at 6 and she left at 11pm and thats what we talked about all night.
well my best friend wants to tell him how she feels and that shes srry . if you were him would u still be mad at her. because he told me he wants her to at least apoligize. she at least wants to be friends with him and maybe later they can go bac to the way they were. (since they has to break up a 11 month relasionship so quickly) and she was in love with him and it was the last person they each loved. please help!!!
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First of all, it doesn't sound like her parents want them together at all, so it doesn't matter if they should get together now or not.
If her parents have changed and they don't mind them dating, then I do think she owes him an apology for acting erratically. Also, I don't think that they should continue having sex because they are so young it could really effect their emotional decisions.
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anonymous -
Keep in mind the statement that I'm going to make isn't regarding your friend, but her behavior.
She's a fucking idiot.
I mean, who the hell yells at a guy and then cries in front of him to gain sympathy??? For shame.
If I were a guy, hell yes I would still be mad at her. My advice to you, stay out of it. This situation involves them, and by you getting squished in the middle just makes things worse because you're going to end up choosing sides sooner or later.
My advice to her, if she really wants him back and actually loves him, she's got to make it up to him. Find a creative way to say you're sorry like write a poem, a love note, sing to him, make him a cupcake saying I'm sorry, etc. But what's most important is she has to prove it to him that she's changed so that he can trust her again. If he doesn't immediately take her back, it doesn't mean she has to stop trying. To show him that you really love him, you have to be persistent, and prove to him that he's the one that makes you happy.
Good luck to her.
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all i can say is that he probley still thinks about her so he might be a little sensitive to the subject so jusr make sure you have ur friend watch how she puts it when he tells her. Like that she watches how she puts it because he might be mad. so just make sure fights dont start again maybe u should be with her when she tells him. she might fell better pouring her heart out when shes go some1 with her.
hope it helps
<3 BrItT
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