ok so me and my ex girlfriend broke up over a month ago now, but i still like her a lot, and i kno she likes me to, but shes said she wants to wait until 2 weeks into school before decide if she wants to get back together, but she also said if she misses me she will come back after the 2 weeks. i still talk to her everynight on either AIM or phone, and i think im just ruining my chances....should i stop talking to her or should i ruin my chance and just continue wat im doing?
plz help
-anonymous
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xoxbellabebexox answered Thursday August 18 2005, 11:35 pm: well........ if you really like her just be there for her show her that there is no way she can have any1 better than you. be there for her. talk to her and stuff like you have but i also want you to realize that she is like well ill see after two weeks in school and maybe ill go back out with you. i mean i dunno because it seems to me that from my point of view that she is saying "well hey, if no one asks me out in 2 weeks then ill go out with you again i guess." you know what i mean? i mean it just seems like your a rebound boyfriend that if nothing better comes around she knows you'll be there personally if i were a guy and if i were you i would maybe still talk to her but not as much and all but i mean if she wants to go back out tell her that you guys had a chance going back out but like she wanted to move on and that nuthin came here way she wants to go back out it seems to me that she isnt ready for a serious relasionship. by what it seems you are a great guy and you really care about your ex-girlfriend which alot of guys like you are really hard to find. you can do so much better. your girlfriend should care about you. and if you wanna go back out with her she shouldnt say basically "hey if nuthin better comes along i guess ill go out with you." if i were you i would try to be friends and move on but if its more serious of a relasionship thats its hard to not want her back mail me again. but mail me back on your opinion maybe i could help trust me ive had the same situation.
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