Question Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 1:59 pm
ususally i GIVE Advice on this site, but i guess im asking now - this question is for the guys out there, i dont want to hear " get over him " because im perfectly aware that i need to, and im working on it -
i met this guy, brad - we met through friends and i found out he liked me, so i started liking him. we were amazing together. i really fell for him. we were always together, he was so sweet. and so funny - then one day it just ended. he said he couldnt date me. i was pretty upset but i went on with my life i guess even tho i still liked him. after that we were just friends, but every once in a while we would be "together" again for like a week and then, after that wed just be friends again i do everything for him - and now hes just such an asshole to me. hes all over girls in front of me. and it hurts because i still feel so much for him, i never got any closure. and its not fair. i dont understand what these whores have that i dont? even his friends tell me hes stupid for doing this to me - and now ive become like bestfriends with all his friends. theyr all so good to me except him, so i see him like everyday. i dont know. what the hell is this guys problem?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LadyGoodman answered Thursday December 29 2005, 2:07 pm: He's a stupid boy who doesn't know what he wants, like 99% of the rest of the teenage population. I know that sounds cynical, but it's true. A lot of times guys don't even know why they themsevles are doing stupid shit, they just do it! Many times, it comes down to being afraid of getting hurt and being committed and they close themselves off. It's something that he will change himself when he matures enough to, but there's nothing you can really do about it.
I say go for one of his friends, since they're all so nice to you. That will screw with him so badly, and he'll want you back, but by then you will have realized what a unworthy jerk he is and probably won't care. Revenge can be sweet. hehe [ LadyGoodman's advice column | Ask LadyGoodman A Question ]
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