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i guess its friendship.. yeah it is...
14/f okay well i was invited to my friends for new years with 5 other girls (plus her/the host). then my boyfriend invited me to his house for new years. i said that i already have plans with my other friend. and they both refuse to have a party together. i havent spent a whole lot of time with him since school, ive only seen him twice and i really want to see him. but i already made plans with my other friend. hes gotten mad that i havent seen him in a while and says i wont see him again til school. i try to make plans with him but when hes free im not and when im free hes not. 2 of the 6 girls that were invited to my friends house are going to my boyfriends house and another girl might be going to a completly different party. so that leave the 4 of us again. ive been hanging out with the 3 girls alot lately and i always have fun with them. i really want to spend time with my boyfriend for the new year but i know that ill have more fun with the girls. he (and my parents) are kinda mad and dissapointed that im not going to his house. what do i do about the situation.
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Hmmm toughy. Whenever I get invited to two things for the same time, I go to the one who invited me first. Its just fair. So if you want to do it that way, you can try to habg out with your boyfriend tomorrow.
Here's an idea. Go to your friends party for an hour-two hours.. then go to your boyfriends party. All will be good and fair. Just make sure to tell your friend your leaving early, and your boyfriend your coming late.
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maybe you could go to your bfs house and arrange to meet up with your other four friends another day. or like someone said before...you could try to go to both that night. maybe you could spend half the time at your bfs house and the rest with your friends. im sure both your friends and your bf wont mind it as long as you do get to spend some time with both of them.
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well depending on the times of the parties cant u make both of them for a lil bit?
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