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Not Sure if he's a Friend
14/m
ok... this kid i know, lets call him "Rick". Rick and i have started to be pretty good friends this year. but then he started to copy me. he started to say stuff about me. but he like change his mind like every day. 1 day he hates me, the next he loves me. being his friend is stressful. what should i do?? should i not be his friend because he's always trying to be me?? help.
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your friend sounds really confused. i think if you like him as a friend you should have some words with him. if he decides to change his opinion about you almost everyday then thats not what a friend should be doing. if you like to be his friend, and want your friendship to survive then you should talk to him. let him know what he is doing is hurting you emotionallly and you realy cant take it for much longer. hopefuly he wil understand and try to change his ways
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it sounds like your friend Rick is trying to find him self. I had a friend just like him, exept a girl lol. But these kinds of people arent really the best of friends but if you can help them. But if you really cant stand him then just slowly move on with out him.. or just tell him how you feel.good luck.
simone
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i had a friend exactly like that!..it turns out all she wanted is more friends, she wasnt trying to copy..she didnt even notice it..she looked up to me..so maybe your friend looks up to you, so thats why he was copying you. and she also talked bad about me..but she was just confused and she apologized about it later..maybe you could just ask him about it!-hope-i-helped-<3-mo
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ok i have almost the same problem as you.What you should do is tell him straight out what is going on and don't be afraid of hurting his feelings because he is sooner or later he is going to realize what he lost as a friend or more.
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To tell you the truth, I think he's using you. If he truely wanted to be your friend he wouldn't be doing that crap to you. Friends don't do that and you shouldn't kiss his ass for it. He's being really immature & he should be glad that you are his friend. Before just saying I'm not going to be his friend, have you tried talking to him & telling him you're annoyed with it?? Sometimes when someone adores the person they will want to be just like them. Talk to him first & if he keeps saying stuff about you, you shouldn't be friends with someone like him.
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Hey
If you have to question your friendship, then there isn't really a true friendship. The way i see it , is a real friend shouldn't put you through any stress! If they do ,don't bother being friends with them. If you really feel that he's hurting you in any kind of way, just simply move on and forget about him!
♥ maria ♥
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