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obsessed?


Question Posted Thursday December 29 2005, 11:23 pm

well there is this guy, and i really like him but he has a girlfriend. and he flirts with me and stuff and i do it back. i think about him all the time and my friend says that im obsessed with him. i mean i dont think im obsessed i know i like him alot. i dont constantly talk about him but i think about him alot. but i do talk about him alot when im with her because shes the only one who really understands how i feel my other friends dont really care about this kind of stuff. so am i obsessive over this guy because i really like him..and i know i cant do anything about it until he breaks up with his girlfriend to really like tell him how i feel, but i think he knows already. please help -- i rate high.thx - - <3 michelle

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ange321 answered Friday December 30 2005, 11:07 am:
maybe you need to tell your friend that shes the only person you talk about him to then maybe she wil understand. i dont think you are obsessd with him either. because i know every time i fall for someone i tend to talk about them alot. i bet sometimes you dont even realise your talking about him alot, dont worry i think its only natural. and to be honest i think you should consider yourself lucky that even thought he has a gf,hes flirting with you. if he is doing that,it kinda shows he doesnt have much interest left in his gf. so i doubt things wil last much longer between him and his gf. maybe you should jus wait until its over.

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Look2Linh answered Friday December 30 2005, 2:34 am:
well michelle, i dont think its fair to this guy and his girlfriend that you are flirting with him and he is flirting with you. if he really likes you, tell him to break up with his girlfriend because it isnt fair to her that he is liking you while he is with her. and you have to be patient. if he really likes his g/f then it will be a while until they break up. stop flirting with him and tell him he is only allowed ONE girl. he cant use you as a backup or flirt with you and lead you on like that. sorry for the long answer and i hope this help.

sincerely, linh

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