ok. my bf and i just recently broke up. we have a dance coming up and we were going to go. he lives in a different town than me. so we were going to go to his on the 21 and mine on the 22. they changed his to the 22 too. so his mom said he had to go to the one in his town. we have talked only once since the breakup. but we are ok-ish with eachother. we had a hard breakup. when we were talking about his dance. he was like ill take you but i want to wait and see. and i was like if someone else asks you. and he said ya. and i was like ok. and he was like ya but ill most likely take you. and i was like probally not. cuz a lot of girls like you and want to go with you. and he was like o ya i forgot. do you think he just doesnt want to go with me.
EvilCheshire answered Friday December 16 2005, 11:55 pm: For starters I would be somewhat upset with him becuase of his beating around the bush. What is that? He says that he's going to take you.. but maybe he won't becuase there is some other girl?
He seems to be a waste of time, if he beats around the bush like that.. and I can't put it any better or nicer than this but I don't think he plans on wanting to take you. He's being a jurk and you should look elsewhere for a date at your own school.. then tell him all about it to hear his reaction, see if he gets jealous some :) [ EvilCheshire's advice column | Ask EvilCheshire A Question ]
Razhie answered Friday December 16 2005, 10:00 pm: Sounds a bit like a jerk to me.
So, he will maybe take you, if nothing better comes along.
Stop worrying about his feelings and start worrying about your own! Why on earth would you let him treat you like undesirable company and lead you on like that? Have some more self respect and realize you shouldn't wait on someone who tells you he *might* take you if there is no one better. You can do better then an ex you treats you like sloppy seconds.
Face it darling, he is shopping around and will only take you if he doesn't want to go alone. Don't let yourself be used like that. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
helpachick answered Friday December 16 2005, 9:50 pm: hey! well i think he's probably just thinking that he will try to move on a little bit sometime...and a dance seems like a good time to do that. i'm sure he's still a friend w/ you and won't mind taking you but if someone else from his school wants to go, and he's interested in her he might take her, hoping to maybe move on as well. :(sorry... but i think that might be what's going on
xoxo helpachick [ helpachick's advice column | Ask helpachick A Question ]
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