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Traditions?
Ever since sophomore year in high school a group of friends and I have always gone to South Padre for spring break. We're all sophomores in college now so this year is going to be our 5th. Well I have another friend that isn't apart of our group and she's going to Italy for spring break this year and asked me to come along.
Now, I'm not sure who to go with. I know what you're thinking though, "Italy, what an opportunity" But, I just went over the summer so it's not like a big deal. So should I just say no and go to South Padre?
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I think that you should say no and go to south padre....even tho italy would be fantastic....its always great to have friends from highschool that you keep in touch with....i dont think you should let that go...so i say go to south padre...
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Flip a coin. If you are still uneasy with the decision, flip again.
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Now, it depends, is this group of friends, close?
Or does this new person seem more important. I advise you to pick VERY carefully. Your friends are expecting you, or did you tell them about the other offer? If you think they'll understand about you going to itlay, and you like this new girl, and aren't just hanging out with her for kicks, then by all means, go to italy, but if this group of friends won't understand, and they are really close, then you should keep your plans to them. But offer the new girl, or even ask her if your friends can go with you two. I am guessing that either way, it'll be a tough decision, but if they understand, you have picked some awesome friends!
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Which one did you agree to first? It's kinda crappy if you break the thing with your friends if you already said that you'd go. On the other hand if you said you'd go to Italy first, then you need to follow through. On the surface, I'd probably just go to South Padre.
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I'd go to south padre. Italy is a place to go with someone who you are romantically involved with anyway. Trust me on this one.
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South Padre. You said Italy isn't a big deal, so just go with your group of friends to South Padre. I mean, IT'S A TRADITION! =) Traditions rock and they shouldn't be broken. Hmm..ever thought of inviting her to South Padre too? That way she won't get hurt as much when you say no. Just a thought =)
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I definitely think you should stick to South Padre. It's like a tradition, and sooner or later, yall are going to get married & have kids -- then those traditions will be no more. I know that, that might not be for a while but in the same sense. You might miss out on A LOT with your friends. =]
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I know its a tradition...though it will probably get broken at some point in time.
Go whichever way you think will be the most fun. Most likely that would be with those who you have known the longest and are most comfortable with.
It will be fun either way I'm sure! Have you asked her to join your other group in south Padre?
She may not fit in, but, if you think she would why not ask?
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I think you should go to South Padre and keep the tradition going...If you go to Italy with the friend that you aren't quite as friends with, it won't be as fun..right? Also, since you already went this summer, why waste another thousand bucks to go to the same places.
Anyway, hope I helped!
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Personally because I've never been to Italy I'd probably go there - but if you've already went why break tradition with your friends?
I'd go down to South Padre and just have a goodtime with your group of people. It's probably more fun with a group then one single person anywho.
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