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a crush


Question Posted Sunday September 18 2005, 3:49 am

Im 13 and i really like this guy Brandon and hes a friend of mine but he liked my best friend until she said no when he asked her out. I have a boyfriend but I like Brandon more and hes really cute and i really want him to like me so what should I do? Im also a girl.

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xxmymatrixmanxx answered Sunday September 18 2005, 4:04 pm:
well- first you have a PROBLEM... hes not gonna like you cause of your other bf.. your TAKEN

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xoBrowneyes answered Sunday September 18 2005, 1:44 pm:
You should ask your friend what she thinks of you going out with him and then ask him out. CLAIR

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dhrutts answered Sunday September 18 2005, 9:59 am:
Hi there,

Maybe you've always secretly fancied them, or perhaps love has blossomed out of a long-term friendship. How do you find out whether they fancy you too, and should you even try in the first place?

Think long and hard before you make your feelings known to your friend. Be absolutely certain that you want to take the relationship to another level, make sure it isn't a passing crush.

Be brave, find a quiet moment, and ask him if they want to go out with you sometime. Yes, as more-than-friends. Let him know there's no pressure, and if he say's 'no' then you still want to be mates. Be prepared for a knock back, but hope for the best.

If he says no then be nice, no matter how disappointed you feel. You may have built things up in your own head, but they just didn't see things in that way. Make an effort to keep in touch, but don't get too hung up about the great love that never was. Chalk it down to experience. Keep them as a friend, but make sure your life doesn't revolve around them, have fun with other people and try to find someone else that you fancy.

If they say yes
Lucky you. Go for it.

But firstly make sure you tell your boyfriend how you feel do not keep laeding him on and then hurt his feelings.

Goodluck

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Sassycat911 answered Sunday September 18 2005, 5:53 am:
Your guy friend liked your bestfriend. She turned him down. So now, if you dated him. You would be her "sloppy seconds", "Picking up her scraps".
You may like this boy, but if he liked you, he would have asked you out instead of your friend.
I know that's really harsh to say, but you deserve better, any woman does.

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darkblair771 answered Sunday September 18 2005, 3:58 am:
you should try getting a little bit mre closer to him, try flirting with him more, then if he starts flirting back then find a time where you can get him alone and tell him you like him or something, you could even ask "do you like me?"

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advicegurl714 answered Sunday September 18 2005, 3:57 am:
Well....maybe you should see if brandon likes you back...i don't think your friend will be stressed over someone she don't like!!Don't tell your boyfriend until your certain brandon likes you,then dump him..i mean if you like him you should atleast try

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