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mom and dad
sry about the length but i need help!
ok well my mom and dad are divorced and my dad lives in west virginia and i go see him every other weekend..and i HATE going down there with a passion!
my dad is a very mean person, he cam be obusive at times but not towards me.. towards his ex-wife whcih are now just boyfriend girlfriend. well last weekend i did not want to go and alot happend he said something horrible.
my gram died a little over a year ago and him and my mom were fighting and he said "why dont you go die like ur mother did" and i flipped i dont thinik i've ever cried so much in my life.
well my mom says that i have to go one more time until she can get an attorney and go to court so i dont have to go down.
but i dont want to go down now esspecially now that, that happend. b/c i know he's gonna flip.
so what should i do?
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Wow. I really don't know what to say. It seems like you don't really have a choice, so when you go just try to keep your sprits up. if me mentions something about what he said, just say you dont want tot alk about it. remember, its only ONE more time. just keep that in mind. good luck.
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my mom and dad r divorced too and i go and see him every other week...if i were u i would tell him tht i didnt like wat he said to me and i dont think i want to go this weekend... jsut tell him how u feel itll make him think!
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Be like Harry Potter and obtain an invisibility cloak. With that, your dad will never be able to find you and all will be good.
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You can not go. It is fundemently your choice. Yes your father will probably get pissed off and try to start a legal battle, but if you stand up and tell a judge what you just posted here you'll be fine.
Visiting your parent was set up with the idea that *you* still had a right and desire to see him. It was done for your good, not his. If you don't want to see him anymore, then that is your choice. You just need to inform a lawyer so your mother doesn't get in any trouble.
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I am pleased to inform you that you have something called freedom. Now allow me to just say that you and me are both in about the same situation. Except me I just tell my dad "No I am not going to come over to your place." He lives with his girlfriend I believe. My parents are not divorced but I want them to get one. My dad is not abusive but he does hate it when you argue with him. Now unless when they got a divorce they signed something that said you had to go well then that can easily be taken care of. You can either get an attorny or keep going and once your father goes over the edge and abuses you then go to social services. You will never have to go over to his place again.
I hope everything works out for you. I really do. If you ever need someone to talk to you can either email me or contact me over aim. ( charmedgirl4sure@yahoo.com or snicketfanatic (aim<<<) ))
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It's definately important to take your safety in consideration. If you have a cell phone make sure the battery is fully charged. any moment that you feel like your life is being threatened, don't hesitate to dial 911. By court you have to go to your dads house unless they say other wise. be strong. Whether or not you believe in prayers. You have mine.
wish you the best~
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