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she is changing...
Okay...I have this friend. She has been my friend for about 3 or 4 years but we have come really really close. Now we are Freshmen in high school and never see each other. I see her around the hall and stuff and i can tell how much she it starting to change. She dyed her hair pink, she is always wearing black, and she is hanging out with a whole differnt crowd of people like the punks and goths and stuff. Dont get me wrong i have a lot of friends that are punks and goths and i have NOTHING agenst them but that is just not her type at all. Ever sence she is changing like this i never talk to her...i want to cause i feel like she doesnt want to be friends anymore...but if i talk to her i dont really kno what to say...i need help...
i'll rate 5 for anything good...
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what youshould dois talk to her and make her remember when you use to be frineds. tell her that u really want her bakk the way she was and that she keeps ignoring u. then ask her if she still consiters you as a friend tell her that u care about her and try to keep your frindship with alot of comunication.
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hey! just pull her to the side one day and tell her how you feel! tell her that you miss talking to her and you feel like your friendship is falling aprat! she should understand!!
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If you haven't noticed already, but high school is one of the toughest years in probably your life. You go through emotion, physical changes, get feelings for guys and want to do stuff to them, lose friends and make friends.
As for your friend, invite her to your house and just talk to her that you care about her and you want to know whats happening.
If you're going to talk to her, do it in private because maybe shes embarassed about you.. Sorry to tell you that but it happens to many people..
The only way you'll find out is if you ask her!!
Well, tell me how it goes!! Good luck!
-Sk8trash
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Dont worry this happens to everyone. Now that your in high school you should meet new people because you probably going to be with them for the next 4 years. Try to work things out with you friend by planning certain days to hang out and to catch up. Maybe you can try to meet her and tell her how you feel. Stay friends with her but give her sometime to get to know other people too. I know what your going through and I know you'll make it. Hope this helps!
-Manda
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I totally understand where you're coming from. That's happened to me with a good friend of mine. I started talking to her again like how you wanted to and i found out that she was totally not the same person. Not only the outward appearance was different, but also her personality and character. I also found out that we had nothing to talk about so that made it harder. We still say hi in the hallways but that's about it. I'm sorry, but there's probably not much you can do. Be a good friend but don't expect her to be all buddy buddy with ya. It hurts, I know because you lose a friend. Everything will work out though. Hope i helped ya!!!
4Him, Disciple
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