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How do I know if im ready?
How do I really know if i'm ready to have sex? My Boyfriend and I have been together for a lil over a month... and I feel conforable around him ... but im not sure if im ready to have sex with him yet... how will i know if im ready?
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You'll know when your not scared at all at the thought of sleeping with him. But a month is to soon to be having sex with a bf i think... but thats just my opinion. At 14 i wouldnt sleep with anyone...im almost 16 and i still havent had sex... because i havent found the right guy. Im prob. gonna wait till marrige but thats just me... I know everyone now a days dont usually wait that long... but I seriously think you and this guy should wait. Plus waiting will let each of you know that you respect each other, and your not together only for physical things. hope i helped a little *mare*
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Your not ready.. only a month? I have been together with my bf nathan for 3 months sense yesterday and we dont even go that far and im extremely comfortable around him and myself too and you'll know after about a yr or 2 with him and that is a huge age diff. too you should wait till your at least 16.. but then again it will be illgel but w/e who listens these days when it comes to that sort of stuff? noone really-trix
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YOUR NOT READY.. DONT you'll ruin your life.. wait til you know eachother... ALOT BETTER
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NoOOo .. i don't evn care if u "think" ur ready i'm 14 years old and i KNOW i'm not ready ok..u need to wait u dont wanna risk nething u have a WHOLE life ahead of u .. my sister made this mistake and she regrets it so much .. she can barely live she didnt finish school shes been arrested she's almost i dunno .. u dont wanna risk ur life and future .. trust me it's not worth it * HoPe i HeLpEdD *
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u will just know.. its hard to explain but are u sure u wanna give it up at 14? i am 14 too and idk maybe u should just experiment with oral sex if u want.. but just make sure u wanna do watever u do! hope it helps
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u dont need to have sex!!!!!!! if u get pregnt it would ruin ur hole life!!!!!! ur sooo yong and hes alot older then u if hes preshering u to have sex then mabe hes not worth it i think u would be ready wen ur alot older like mabe 17 or 18 but ur olny 14 i think u should dump ur boyfriend
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It's up to you. If you feel ready to deal with what can happen and all the risks you're taking, and if you could trust this guy with your life, and he can trust you, then go ahead.
Age is a state of mind, not body. =)
If you're ready, you'll know. That's the only way to explain it. You're the only one who can tell.
Though I'd be tempted to say a month is a little soon. I'd wait awhile to make sure he's not just using you to get sex or anything. There are guys that do that - believe me. It's hard to tell.
Trust your first instincts with this one.
Hope I helped!
-Siren =)
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You will know when you are ready, you will have the feeling you are, if you dont have that feeling now then you probably arent ready for it, just stay doing things the way you do now uintil you are ready for it...
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LMAO a month are you nutts !!!! Do you know everything about him?HIs dreams everything! When you have sex your giving your body to him its a big thing you have to have a real close bond with him and know that the relationship will last for a while and i dont think you can tell that when youve only been dating for 1 month and when you ready and your in complete love with him then you wont have to ask yourself "Am I ready" you will just know and you wont have one doubt in your mind at all
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And lol if hes 17 dont you think he just might be taking advantage of you b/c your so young and will do it with him lol he sounds like a dirt bag if he would even let you do it when your 14 when you 25 you will think back and regret doing it so young expessialy with a guy you thought you loved and only used you for sex
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You will know when youre ready for sex. In one month, not much trust can be gained and usually you havent experienced much with that person. You definitly arent ready with that guy to have sex, you say youve only given him a hand job. You should know his body from his head to his toes and he should know yours. You need to have so much trust and love for this person and you cant get that in just ONE MONTH. Really think about it before you do it, please. Dont let him pressure you into it either, thats not cool. When youre caught up in the moment and you know you are so in love with him and you both know what youre thinking... thats when you know if your ready to go all the way. Good luck and use protection ;)
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you will just know....you will be in a situation and the you will feel if going that far feels right to you or not!!!
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i think that you should do whatever ur mind tells you. If u think u are ready to make that comittment with someone then u should but if u think u guys should do mroe stuff then do tha but only do what YOU feel is right. and be safe ;) ~fabulous
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a month? NO! DONT DO IT! you are not ready, please dont do it! 1 month is not enough time. you should wait for a long relationship, one that you are ready to give up something that important too. I think you should wait tell your married or at least can support a child (things happen you know)
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