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I love him but he raped me!
Ok so my boy friend and I were making out one day when he suggested sex, I said i didnt think I wasnt ready! and he got really pissed off and his face turned red and his head was shaking you could see his veins! He started cursing at me and called me the c word! I started crying and begged him to stop because he was scaring me! He slapped me and forced my shirt and bra off, i was pushing him away and then he took off my pants and underwear he started licking me evry where, I tryed to get him off but he wouldnt stop. The next day he left 26 messages on my cell phone saying that he was drunk and he was sorry! I love him half to death but I dont know what I should think of him! Please please Help!
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You should think he's a criminal. If it happened once it will happen again. Send him packing and next time call the law. :)
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wow..whether he was drunk or not there was no need for that. no means no, and thats what you said. he disrespected you and he disrespected your body. you NEED to tell someone. if you go back with him he will do it again. PLEASE dont let him pressure you into sex..that makes me sad!! guys do NOT have the right to treat girls like that. TELL SOMEONE before the situation gets worse. in the meantime, stay away from him!
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Honey, LEAVE HIM! You don't need someone like that in your life. If he forced you to do something that you didn't want to do. I mean he slapped you, You defiantly deserve that. I admire you for saying you weren't ready. Just leave him!
x0x-Sarah
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he doesnt love you...he raped you. you deserve better than that. being drunk isnt an excuse. if you "love" him just dont tell the cops but pleasseee stop seeing him. <3
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GET RID OF HIM!!!
This guy is serious band news, being drunk is NO EXCUSE WHATSOEVER for him to do that to you. You may "love him half to death" but you shouldn't have to put yourself through that. If you need help I'm sure there's a sexual assualt clinic that will be more than happy to help you.
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This chick came to our school a while back and talked to us about abuse and how it started gradually and then built and kept building until it was inescapable. I would tell him that he's broken your trust, because you said yourself you dont kno what to think of him anymore. I think that if I were you I would end it. I think it would help you in the long run and keep what he did tro you from happening in the future. Good luck.
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Even though he was supposivley drunk, that is no excuse AT ALL! Rape is a very serious thing, and I would get away from him ASAP. But, I'd be careful if I were you because he might become a stalker or other things like that. If so, contact the police right away and change your phone numbers and stuff! Everybody is supposed to have one true love..and i seriously doubt that your one true love would've raped you. Sorry, but I don't.
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