so at my school if you dont live in greystone {The rich part} or wear abercrombi (which i think is pointless to pay 80 bucks for prefaded and pre riped jeans)any way if you arent privledged then ure pretty much the scum of the earth.All the punks have spiked or really long hair and wear black shirts and riped jeans. all the preps wear collerd shirts and north face jakets. any way they label the rich kids preps and the middle class to lower class punks. So punks hang out with punks and preps with preps but, this prep likes me and i like her and every one knows so we are both hated by our own soacial clases. so what should we do
simply_sweet17 answered Thursday March 3 2005, 9:33 am: Go out with her. If u like her and she likes u then I don't see the big deal. I mean if your not accepted because of it then, find new friends! You can't help who you like! [ simply_sweet17's advice column | Ask simply_sweet17 A Question ]
Karen answered Thursday March 3 2005, 7:22 am: If you really like her and if she likes you, than that's what matters and nothing else. Who cares if she is a "prep" and you are a "punk"; if people talk, ignore them. No one has to follow the rules of dating their own "kind" and if you want to go out with this girl, then go out with her. Labels are only for soup cans and you just need to ignore these ones at your school. If everyone doesn't agree about this, then just ignore them, that's all.
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
FReNCH_i3aRBiE answered Thursday March 3 2005, 7:03 am: Remember Romeo and Juliet? ( try forgetting that they both died at the end) Or ever get the moral of the story in Avril Lavigne's Sk8er Boi? Since you're already hated by both your own social circles, i say give this relationship a try. Hey maybe you guys will be the ones who allows these two classes to converge and start a whole new era where the punks and preps of your school can live together peacefully. *l0l* hope i helped! [ FReNCH_i3aRBiE's advice column | Ask FReNCH_i3aRBiE A Question ]
BlackRose18 answered Thursday March 3 2005, 12:50 am: Ok well it could go two ways, they could see that both types can clash...or they can be bitches and say shit and talk nasty, either way if you both like each other and your happy go for it, shove it in thier faces...its just gunna piss them off that you dont care what the think, and eventually theyll let it go because its pointless to try anymore [ BlackRose18's advice column | Ask BlackRose18 A Question ]
shake answered Thursday March 3 2005, 12:04 am: Labels are for food items and toys, not for people. Your one major idiot to go along with a label, get out of it. If you so choose to keep following the labels, be sure to stick a price tag on yourself too. Tard. Who cares bout labels. [ shake's advice column | Ask shake A Question ]
K3587 answered Thursday March 3 2005, 12:01 am: Yes, let your life be dictated by your friends. Your individuality is not of importance here. After all, if you don't conform to labels, YOUR LIFE IS OVER.
megz25 answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 11:56 pm: all i can say is fuk labels! if your social group won't accept you for who you like than they aren't worth it! (i'm middle class and im not considered a punk or prep i dont have a label) and if you like the girl and the girl likes you you should go out! [ megz25's advice column | Ask megz25 A Question ]
Teza answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 11:42 pm: These days everyone has a label and I`m pretty used to it. I dont have that many friends that are punks because I`m a prep but I`ll try to help you out as much as I can. I think if you both like each other that you should go out because why wait .. you might not feel the same way about her later on. Ask her out and your friends shouldnt hate you because of that. You guys should be able to do whatever you want and date who ever you want so you need to tell them that. They should respect you in your decisions. If they dont like it then I guess thats just 1 more problem they gotta worry about. I think you and her should do whatever you guys want and whatever you think is best for ya!! I wish ya the best of luck! x0 [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
wantinganswers112 answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 11:22 pm: i think that you should act like the classes aren;t there. it's dumb to be seperated like that. Set the example that what u wear doesn't matter about who you are and stir things up. See if she feels the same way and act on it! Good luck! [ wantinganswers112's advice column | Ask wantinganswers112 A Question ]
TiCkLeD_pInK540 answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 11:20 pm: do what you want to do, not what your friends want you to do. if you like her, hell, go out with her. and if people give you grief about it just say "hey, i'm a human just like you. we both wipe our own butt when we shit and i don't see why you are such a better person than we are." achem, not those exact words to that extent, but you get the picture. But don't be too cocky about it because if you break up and you were really bad to them while you were going out, they're not going to treat you any better. just be confident (but not cocky)in yourself and do what you want to do. it's better to regret something you did do, rather than spend half your life playing the 'what-if' game. so go out there and have some fun!I hope it all works out well! I hope i've been as helpful as possible! if you ever have any questions, you know where to find me!
always,
Carly [ TiCkLeD_pInK540's advice column | Ask TiCkLeD_pInK540 A Question ]
gakkuhideto answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 11:13 pm: Go out with her! True love must conquer all! Forbidden true love is even more special! You will be similar to Romeo and Juliet, except I hope you will not die in the end and instead get married and have a lot of awesome children! [ gakkuhideto's advice column | Ask gakkuhideto A Question ]
WhightKnight answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 11:13 pm: Ah, very similar to where I live. Well, I could tell you the usual, or you could try something else, something tried and true throughout literary history. Take a page out of "Romeo and Juliet", secretly make out, then, well, you know how the story ends. Perhaps you'll bring unity to the preps and punks.
Sherry answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 11:10 pm: Ahh! Screw them all and become friends! This just goes to show how stupid people are. So if punks can only hang out with punks..then white people can only hang out with white people. And black with only black people. See how stupid that is. So screw them all and if they talk crap explain to them that there are many different people in this world, and different skin types, and religions..but we should all accept eachother. Or maybe their just to immature/dumb to understand this. and I agree, 80 bucks for ripped jeans is totally retarded! [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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