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what is the meaning of life?
Whatever you want it to be :o)
how do you tell your mom that you want to wear sexier undies lyke thongs and that stuff? thanx x0
Next time you go shopping just say you wanna check out stores that sell sexier underwear. Just casually mention "Oh this is so cute" and she should get the hint that you wanna wear stuff like that!
i need some help on what eye shadows and liners to wear. i have brown eyes and i want to be able to bring them out. any suggestions? thanx 4 ne help in advance.
Navy blue eyeliner really helps bring out brown eyes. But whenever i wear navy eyeliner i never wear eyeshadow. Also sometimes i wear black eyeliner with a light pink eyeshadow which i find looks really good too! But yea navy eyeliner is the best.
My family is extremely well off money wise. And so are the kids that go to my high school but my family kind of has more money then most of the people in our neighborhood.
Well, I've been talking to a few girls at school about our prom dresses and theirs are around 200-500 dollars. Well, I found the perfect dress but it's 1,500 dollars. I'm supposed to go buy it this weekend but there's a problem. It's not that we can't afford the dress, because we can and my parents think that it's a good amount to pay for it. It's that I don't want to be the only girl there that paid over a thousand dollars for a Prom dress. I don't want people to talk about it or anything.
Should I get the dress even though it's 3 or 4 times more than what everyone else is going to pay for theirs?
oh i would definitly get it! if you can afford and if you're parents want you to get it... go for it! you'll have one of the most beautiful dresses there! prom is an important night and you want to look your best!
I want to make my hair wavy. I already have natural waves, but they aren't that strong, and anyway they're frizzy. My friend uses mousse and scrunches up her hair, and she also uses tongs. I told my mum I wanted to make my hair wavy, but she keeps saying that the only way you can have waves in your hair is to get a perm. It's not, is it?? Because my mate says she's never had a perm. But whatever I say, my mum keeps saying that you can't have wavy hair unless you get a perm, my mum ALWAYS thinks she's right, I can't get through to her. Anyway, how do you make your hair wavy? Please tell me any products/tongs etc that are good, and if there are any sites that tell you how to get wavy hair then I'd appreciate it. I used to curl my hair with tongs, because I did Irish dance competitions. But the curls just fell out like 30 minutes later, so if you know how to actually keep the waves in place, that would be helpful too (I tried tresemme gel spray but that didn't work). Thanks! xo
I have the same problem. And all the other answers you got said to braid your hair but that does NOT work for me. After i get out of the shower i put some mousse in my hair and then i use a diffuser (an attachement you put on the end of your blowdryer and it's purpose is to make hair wavy). This makes my hair alot less frizy and more wavy.
How do you become confident
I used to have no confidence at all but now i'm SUPER-confident. Although i'm not quite sure how i went through the transition. I guess i just starting thinking positively about myself. Whenever i look in the mirror, instead of critisizing myself i tell myself i'm hot and it works. But at least i know that you can change and you can gain confidence in yourself if you really try.
when ever i have a boyfriend they always think im cheating on them because i flirt so much but thats just what i do and i dont know how to not flirt as much
This kinda used to happen to me. My girlfriends would get pissed at me because they'd always accuse me of flirting with their boyfriends and i wasn't even aware that i was doing it. It was really hard cause i felt i couldn't even talk to the guys anymore cause i'd get accused of flirting so i just kinda stopped talking to them...stopped being nice and helpful...for awhile and then everyone got over it.
Hey I have wrote before but I took out some of the names out of the choices that I wanted you guys to help me with.. I like unique names btw.. not like John or Matthew.. just so my baby will be most likely the only one in his class with that name.. Here's a list below and maybe if you find one or something I may like suggest it please!
Jayden
Daryk
Carsyn
Aiden
Kaden
thanks a bunch!!
I really like Aiden!
what if I know this person and she was going to cheat on this guy and I was her bff and i ilked this guy but she just got asked to be his gf and I dont know what to do because she is going to play this guy and I want to tell him because he will be really sad, what should I do ??? I dont want it to ruin a long frendship
Hmm this is a tough one. On first thought i was gonna say to tell the guy because he deserves to know what`s really going on. But then i thought it would really suck to lose this friendship. Maybe you could like, tell someone who you know will spill the beans or something. Then you wouldn`t be the one who told but he`d still find out about it.
I'm going to get a piercing this up coming weekend, but I've never been to a "real" tattoo and piercing parlor. My piercing should be about $90 Canadian at most, so I'm wondering how much is it customary to tip? Does it vary with service, or is their a flat percentage of cost that most people tip?
I personaly don`t believe in tipping. I mean, these people are getting paid for what they do anyway so why tip? I know i know, it`s nice and polite but i still don`t do it. MAYBE on occasion i`ll tip a really good waitress or bartender, but i haven`t and wouldn`t tip someone for a peircing or tattoo and don`t feel like you should either.
ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend 4 almost 6 months and i think he is the one. but sometimes i am like no he cant be the one and i just think and think about it and other times i am like i know he is the one. i love him 2 death and i know that will never change. but do think this relationship will last ?????? and is it right 2 think that your boyfriend is the one at a young age????? he is 14 turning 15 and i am 13 turnin 14
-confused
No one can really answer the question for you. Only you can know if you love him or not. That IS kind of young for finding your true love but hey, it`s happened before.
i have a horrible sunburn.... i mean horrible! it doesnt even look that red but it KILLS! for example, i went to bed at 10pm and i woke up at 12 not being able to sleep bc it hurt so bad! what can i do! when can i start going to the tannign place again?
Put on alot of Aloe Vera. I sunburnt really bad last week and i had a hard time sleeping but i just kept slathering on the Aloe Vera. Now i`m all peeling which is probably what`s gonna happen to you too...this is also helped by Aloe Vera. You should wait till the burn is completely gone before going back to the tanning beds.
so at my school if you dont live in greystone {The rich part} or wear abercrombi (which i think is pointless to pay 80 bucks for prefaded and pre riped jeans)any way if you arent privledged then ure pretty much the scum of the earth.All the punks have spiked or really long hair and wear black shirts and riped jeans. all the preps wear collerd shirts and north face jakets. any way they label the rich kids preps and the middle class to lower class punks. So punks hang out with punks and preps with preps but, this prep likes me and i like her and every one knows so we are both hated by our own soacial clases. so what should we do
Remember Romeo and Juliet? ( try forgetting that they both died at the end) Or ever get the moral of the story in Avril Lavigne's Sk8er Boi? Since you're already hated by both your own social circles, i say give this relationship a try. Hey maybe you guys will be the ones who allows these two classes to converge and start a whole new era where the punks and preps of your school can live together peacefully. *l0l* hope i helped!
I'm 14 and I've never made out with a guy, but I think something might happen with this kid this weekend. I don't really know what I'm doing so does anyone have advice? Is it weird that I've never made out with anyone?
No way! The first time i even kissed a guy I was 16 years old. I had had boyfriends before, i was popular and lots of guys liked me, but i just hadn't got around to that yet. It happens at different times for different people...don't think you're weird because of it! Just go with the flow!
Everyone is always saying "I hate tanlines" blah blah blah. Is it wierd that I actually like them? Like if you wear a tube top after wearing a bathing suit that ties around your neck, or if you had cris cross straps on your back. I think its kind of like a sign that you tan. idk, I think its kind of cool...is that wierd? I don't like tanning lines after you wear shorts, or a farmers tan...
i ADORE tanlines! I think it's sexy when you can see where the straps of my bikini passed around my neck cause that shows how much i tanned! You can compare to how pale you were before and how tan you are now. So no it's not weird to like them!
i got this friend right, he has such bad luck with girls and all he does is try to show off for them but nothin works and he just gets blown off all the time..... what should he do?
Tell him to stop showing off. That's one of the biggest turn-offs. Just tell him to be himself and not try to impress girls. Someday he'll meet the right girl.
ok well i am 13 female and there is this boy named alex and he is really really hot and popular and he said that he needs a girlfriend becuz he is lonely and my friend adriana put all these girls names on a piece of paper and gave it to alex so he can rate them and my name was on there and he rated me a 1!!! I am not the prettiest girl alive and i am kinda overweight so what can i do for him 2 rate me like a 7 or sumthing???? and any advice about excrise so i can lose weigt???????
-confused
Ah yess...me and my friends used to do this. Don't put yourself down just because one guy doesn't think you're hot. You're probably just not his type. Don't worry about it, i'm sure you're beautiful just the way you are.
i only know what it is like to get my ears peirced so i have no clue about other peircings. what are the coolest places to get peirced on my body? what is the pain level rated 1-10 when you get your belly button peirced? how do they do it, can u please tell me the procedure of doing it, like every detail coz i wanna know exactly what they do before geting mine done.
thanks!
Well first off ear peircings are the less painful. They rate about a 2 on my pain scale. It just kinda stings for a minute.
The only other thing i have pierced (and that i would ever get done) is my belly button and i think that it's the sexiest peircing. I'd rate the pain about an 8 but everyone's is different. First they make some marks where the ring will pass. Then they clamp it, this doesn't really hurt, just kinda pinches lightly. Then they pass a fairly large needle through your skin. This kinda knocks the wind out of you for a second because it hurts. Then they pass the ring through as they take out the needle. Mine bled alot after i got it done but most of the time it doesn't bleed. Even though it hurts it's definitly worth it.
Hey I just have a little question, everytime I am in the shower after I wash my hair and rinse it out and even when I rinse the conditioner out a lot of my hair just comes right out! Like not in huge chunks but in like a lot of strands and stuff! Is there any reason that this is happening? If anyone knows could you please help me? It usually only happens in the shower, not when it is dry!
This happens to me every time i take a shower. The thing is, i often have my hair up. About a hundred hairs fall from your head throughout the day and if you have it up, it doesn't have anywhere to fall. So if you're wearing your hair up alot, that's the problem. You shouldn't worry about it tho. If it doesn't fall out in chunks it's normal.
ok me and this guy, jeremy have been hanging out. he's a year younger than me (school-wise) because he failed, and we met through my best friend.she and him are good friends, so yeah ;) well jeremy has a friend paul, that likes my friend ewelina... making sense? well the guys drink sometimes. everytime we hang out they are bored because they are sober and vodka gets them to express themselves?! haahaa... weird i know. well the i heard jeremy likes me so i startedmaking small moves o him, like laying on him and stuff and well yesterday he didn't do ANYTHING, AT ALL! then later on he called me while i was at my friends house, and i was hey who is this, he's like your're boyfriend. i was like oH the one that ignored me today? he saoid he didn't ignore me today and that he really likes me and he's nervous AROUND girls he likes. the only reason he said all this was because he drank a little. and then he calls ewelina, and they talked for 73 mins, exactly, haha. they talked about me. he likes me a lot, and he wants to change supposedly . he wants to get serious with me and his friends told me the same thing. today i heard they're going out to drink again and i called them and we talked then went to his friend paul's house. they were sober and we didn't talk at all, we just sat there (me,paul, jeremy, ewelina!) and then me and ewelina left and went to her house and then all of a sudden the doorbell rings. we answer it and its jeremy with 2 of his friends. then ewelina leaves and me and them go to the park to talk. they ask why we don't want them to drink, and i couldn't think of a good reason. then they were like to jeremy (his friends said) ok how about u dont drink on mon, tues, wed, thurs, and friday saturday sunday you can? how does that sound lisa(me)? and i was like i dont control him and he's like dude ill drink whenever i want. i really like the guy and i know him and my friend ewelina have had feelings for each other in the past and paul likes ewelina so thats why jeremy ANd ewelina never went out. one of jeremy's friends today metnioned that if paul was a good friend he's let jeremy go out with ewelina. she's my best friend and i loove her to DEATH but i don't know what to do anymre. she's not gonna go out with paul and i want to go out with jeremy and he knows that. so how do i get jeremy to stop drinkinking and how do i tell him and good reason to show that I CARE!!!!!!!????? and should I worry about jeremy and ewelina? thanks soo much!
=] thanks a zilxillion
Alright kind of complicated but i think i understand. First off i think that Jeremy just doesn't talk to you sometimes cause he's nervous. Guys are weird like that. Don't think you're doing anything wrong...it's just the way things work sometimes. If he told his friends he wants to get serious with you it's probably true, just give him some time to get used to you and stuff. Get to know each other better. As for the drinking thing, as long as it doesn't get to be a real problem you shouldn't tell him what to do. Guys don't like girls telling them what to do. They feel trapped. As for the whole Ewelina thing...if she swears that nothing will go on between her and Jeremy and if Jeremy seems genuinly interested in you, then you should give it a shot. Hope i helped!