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ok me and this guy, jeremy have been hanging out. he's a year younger than me (school-wise) because he failed, and we met through my best friend.she and him are good friends, so yeah ;) well jeremy has a friend paul, that likes my friend ewelina... making sense? well the guys drink sometimes. everytime we hang out they are bored because they are sober and vodka gets them to express themselves?! haahaa... weird i know. well the i heard jeremy likes me so i startedmaking small moves o him, like laying on him and stuff and well yesterday he didn't do ANYTHING, AT ALL! then later on he called me while i was at my friends house, and i was hey who is this, he's like your're boyfriend. i was like oH the one that ignored me today? he saoid he didn't ignore me today and that he really likes me and he's nervous AROUND girls he likes. the only reason he said all this was because he drank a little. and then he calls ewelina, and they talked for 73 mins, exactly, haha. they talked about me. he likes me a lot, and he wants to change supposedly . he wants to get serious with me and his friends told me the same thing. today i heard they're going out to drink again and i called them and we talked then went to his friend paul's house. they were sober and we didn't talk at all, we just sat there (me,paul, jeremy, ewelina!) and then me and ewelina left and went to her house and then all of a sudden the doorbell rings. we answer it and its jeremy with 2 of his friends. then ewelina leaves and me and them go to the park to talk. they ask why we don't want them to drink, and i couldn't think of a good reason. then they were like to jeremy (his friends said) ok how about u dont drink on mon, tues, wed, thurs, and friday saturday sunday you can? how does that sound lisa(me)? and i was like i dont control him and he's like dude ill drink whenever i want. i really like the guy and i know him and my friend ewelina have had feelings for each other in the past and paul likes ewelina so thats why jeremy ANd ewelina never went out. one of jeremy's friends today metnioned that if paul was a good friend he's let jeremy go out with ewelina. she's my best friend and i loove her to DEATH but i don't know what to do anymre. she's not gonna go out with paul and i want to go out with jeremy and he knows that. so how do i get jeremy to stop drinkinking and how do i tell him and good reason to show that I CARE!!!!!!!????? and should I worry about jeremy and ewelina? thanks soo much!
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well then lol...it was a very long explanation lol but lemme see what i can do. maybe try not to focus so much on jeremy and his drinking, especially if you dont plan to have a relationship with him beyond being friends. of course, you should still be a good friend and wathc out for him to make sure his small bad habit doesnt turn into something horrible. as for ewelina and jeremy, you need to ask her how she feels about jeremy. if she has feelings for him, go to jeremy and make sure he does have feelings for her. if he does, you need to make sure he talks to his friend paul about ewelina. obviously, jeremy and paul are good friends and jeremy doesnt want to mess things up between them, which is a good thing lol. if all else fails, try to back off of them a little bit. sometimes if you cant help things turn out for the better, they were not meant to be in the first place. now to show jeremy that you care about him, you need to be straight forward about his drinking and how it affects you. you may not be able to change him, because drinking is part of who he is. but maybe you can make him more aware of the way he makes you feel. hopefully this is helpful but if you need more advice either ask another question (just make sure i know its you) or email me at kelsey21090@hotmail.com
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if he likes you so much im sure he'll give anything up for you. if he doesnt then calmly tell him and explain why you dont like him drinking.....i hope you and him arnt drinking underage!!!.....umm if your friend ewelina is really your friend she wont take your man from you. If it doesnt work out dont sweat it. there will always be someone out there for you that could be better then Jeremy. hope i helped and if this advice is not enough then ill be happy to answer another question!
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WOW this is like the longest question ive ever gotten...took me like ten minutes to read..lol
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Alright kind of complicated but i think i understand. First off i think that Jeremy just doesn't talk to you sometimes cause he's nervous. Guys are weird like that. Don't think you're doing anything wrong...it's just the way things work sometimes. If he told his friends he wants to get serious with you it's probably true, just give him some time to get used to you and stuff. Get to know each other better. As for the drinking thing, as long as it doesn't get to be a real problem you shouldn't tell him what to do. Guys don't like girls telling them what to do. They feel trapped. As for the whole Ewelina thing...if she swears that nothing will go on between her and Jeremy and if Jeremy seems genuinly interested in you, then you should give it a shot. Hope i helped!
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