Hey ya'll!! My name is Kelsey and I live in a small southern town in Illinois. My friends refer to me as the advice-giver of our group. I've always got something to say, good or bad, and I love to help people! Hopefully I am of some help to ya'll!!
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E-mail: kelsey21090@hotmail.com
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Location: Illinois
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Age: 15
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Member Since: February 22, 2005
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I am turning 15 in less than a month and lately ive been looking up information about female masturbation. I masturbated the 1st of march for the first time ever. Well i dont know if sticking a magic marker in your vagina is masturbating...but anyway. Today i worked up the nerve to finger myself. It felt weird. Yesterday when i first ever masturbated i thought it felt really good...and i really want to have an orgasm...i just dont know how. I'm not comfertable with large objects in my vagina, only the size of my index finger. So my first question is " How do i get an orgasm with nothing bigger than a magic marker or my finger?" and my second question is "how come the morning after the first time i masturbated i felt really sick?"
Sorry this is so long...but i really need to know. Thanks everyone. (link)
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um magic markers??? doesnt sound too magical...lol i dunno maybe you just should not masturbate...i mean come on...you can live without it
No Offense lol...Kelsey Loves You
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Ok so there is this guy that i really like. And i really wanna tell him i like him, but i don't want to risk the friendship if he doesn't like me back (even though everyone says he does) what should i do? (link)
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ok so you deffinitly need to tell him! there is no knowing, maybe he likes you, and if you dont tell him how you feel you may be throwing away the perfect chance to get the guy. hang out with him, call him, do whatever you can to show him that you wanna be with him
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ok me and this guy, jeremy have been hanging out. he's a year younger than me (school-wise) because he failed, and we met through my best friend.she and him are good friends, so yeah ;) well jeremy has a friend paul, that likes my friend ewelina... making sense? well the guys drink sometimes. everytime we hang out they are bored because they are sober and vodka gets them to express themselves?! haahaa... weird i know. well the i heard jeremy likes me so i startedmaking small moves o him, like laying on him and stuff and well yesterday he didn't do ANYTHING, AT ALL! then later on he called me while i was at my friends house, and i was hey who is this, he's like your're boyfriend. i was like oH the one that ignored me today? he saoid he didn't ignore me today and that he really likes me and he's nervous AROUND girls he likes. the only reason he said all this was because he drank a little. and then he calls ewelina, and they talked for 73 mins, exactly, haha. they talked about me. he likes me a lot, and he wants to change supposedly . he wants to get serious with me and his friends told me the same thing. today i heard they're going out to drink again and i called them and we talked then went to his friend paul's house. they were sober and we didn't talk at all, we just sat there (me,paul, jeremy, ewelina!) and then me and ewelina left and went to her house and then all of a sudden the doorbell rings. we answer it and its jeremy with 2 of his friends. then ewelina leaves and me and them go to the park to talk. they ask why we don't want them to drink, and i couldn't think of a good reason. then they were like to jeremy (his friends said) ok how about u dont drink on mon, tues, wed, thurs, and friday saturday sunday you can? how does that sound lisa(me)? and i was like i dont control him and he's like dude ill drink whenever i want. i really like the guy and i know him and my friend ewelina have had feelings for each other in the past and paul likes ewelina so thats why jeremy ANd ewelina never went out. one of jeremy's friends today metnioned that if paul was a good friend he's let jeremy go out with ewelina. she's my best friend and i loove her to DEATH but i don't know what to do anymre. she's not gonna go out with paul and i want to go out with jeremy and he knows that. so how do i get jeremy to stop drinkinking and how do i tell him and good reason to show that I CARE!!!!!!!????? and should I worry about jeremy and ewelina? thanks soo much!
=] thanks a zilxillion
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well then lol...it was a very long explanation lol but lemme see what i can do. maybe try not to focus so much on jeremy and his drinking, especially if you dont plan to have a relationship with him beyond being friends. of course, you should still be a good friend and wathc out for him to make sure his small bad habit doesnt turn into something horrible. as for ewelina and jeremy, you need to ask her how she feels about jeremy. if she has feelings for him, go to jeremy and make sure he does have feelings for her. if he does, you need to make sure he talks to his friend paul about ewelina. obviously, jeremy and paul are good friends and jeremy doesnt want to mess things up between them, which is a good thing lol. if all else fails, try to back off of them a little bit. sometimes if you cant help things turn out for the better, they were not meant to be in the first place. now to show jeremy that you care about him, you need to be straight forward about his drinking and how it affects you. you may not be able to change him, because drinking is part of who he is. but maybe you can make him more aware of the way he makes you feel. hopefully this is helpful but if you need more advice either ask another question (just make sure i know its you) or email me at kelsey21090@hotmail.com
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My best friend Anna and I both like the same guy, Dan. We are both really good friends with him and he flirts with us and other girls a lot. The problem is that he told me that he didn't like Anna, and only wanted to be friends with her. Then he told me that he always is really good friends with girls and then they end up liking him.
I told Anna this and she is really upset and I'm not sure how I should do. I still really like Dan, but it sounds like he doesn't like me because of what he said about his friends falling for him. I was about to ask him out, but now I'm not sure if I should.
why do guys flirt with girls and expect that the girl will never like them? Shouldn't they know that the girl will end up liking him? (link)
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Alright hunny, I have LOTS of experience in this area. My story is similar to yours and I know its hard to deal with. Not all guys flirt with girls to lead them on. In this case maybe Dan is just unsure of what he wants or what kind of girl he is looking for. Of course, it isnt right for him to flirt constantly with a randon number of girls, but maybe he just needs to know how much you actually like him. Tell him how you truly feel, and if you are really serious about him and a relationship with him, TELL HIM! Now for Anna. You two need to sit down together and discuss the way you feel. Tell her how much you like him and figure out if the way she feels about Dan is serious or just a fling. If it is just a fling tell her your plans to talk to him and try to make it so she knows that you are putting your friendship first. If she is serious about wanting to get with him, you need to decide whether you want to take a chance with Dan and lose your friendship possibly or maybe ask Anna if there is a way for you to get Dan but straighten things out so you two can stay friends. It is going to be hard and confusing but hopefully Anna is mature enough to understand that there is a possible chance that you and Dan could turn itno something serious. Good Luck! Hopefully things work out for the best!
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