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I'm 14 and I've never made out with a guy, but I think something might happen with this kid this weekend. I don't really know what I'm doing so does anyone have advice? Is it weird that I've never made out with anyone?
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its not weird, just do it, its fun!! lol
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not there is nothing wierd with not having made out with anyone. its just that your time hasnt come yet. but if you think that something will happen with that kid than you should try and make that moment special, because you would want to remember it as something special. Only do it if you want to.
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I was 12 when I made out with someone for the first time.. actually.. I was 12 when I kissed someone for the first time.. I'm 17 now so back then kissing was a HUGE deal.. now its all sex, and drugs, and alcohol.. todays youth its totally fucked...
In answer to your question.. No, Its not weird, its totally cool that you havnt.. good luck on the weekend...
and a bit of more advice.. dont call him a "Kid" it makes you sound like a pedofile..
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No way! The first time i even kissed a guy I was 16 years old. I had had boyfriends before, i was popular and lots of guys liked me, but i just hadn't got around to that yet. It happens at different times for different people...don't think you're weird because of it! Just go with the flow!
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first the age thing, no not at all. i didnt kiss anyone until a month before my 18 birthday, and im a guy, that is lame. you are just innocent, thats good, and i guarentee you that the guy likes that.
ok, the kiss. i recommend as little as possible. start with closed mouth and hold it for a while, remember to take your time. breath in deeply then relax your lips. open your lips, but not wide at all, very slightly, and close them again and pull back. then just stare into his eyes and think about how much you like him.
that should be enough for the first time. dont use your tounge, dont open your mouth wide, dont press very hard. all of that will come later, and very naturally, when you learn to feel eachother out. you will be surprised. in the future it will almost feel like you can read eachother and know exactly when its time to add more to it.
one last note: do NOT do ANYTHING because you think he wants you too. only do what YOU want to. if he likes you, he can wait. if he cant wait, hes not right for you.
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Its not weird that you havent made-out with anyone everyone goes at thier own speed some are faster than others:
a kiss is only cool if you want to pucker up. Never feel obliged to kiss a boy whatever the circumstances. When you force yourself, you’re inviting all kinds of kissing disasters into play.
Try not to be too nervous kissing is natural. When you’re ready to kiss for the first time, you’ll be amazed how your instincts take over.
When you’re ready to kiss, lean your head towards his ‘til you’re about a centimetre apart. Tilt your head (so you don’t squish noses) and pout your lips like you would for a normal peck, parting them slightly as you press against his lips.
Purse and release your lips, without breaking contact with his, occasionally shifting position so it doesn’t get boring. The first time you kiss him keep it short less than a minute. Slow down the motion of your lips and finish with a light peck.
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It's no big deal, you should make out with someone when you feel it is the right time, place, and person. hope it helps
~megan
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Not at all! You just have to wait until you are ready and the right time! Dont worry about it! x0
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aww it's ok! i havent' either but my friends have told me about what helps and what doesn't.
1.don't wear lipgloss, it'll go on his lips and he might be turned off by how it feels cos guys are wierd like that. a light shimer stick should be all you'd wear
2.before you meet him, two words: breath mint
3.don't act how they do in the movies, it's corny and no one likes ne thing fake,
4.be honest. you might want to tell him that it's your first time and that if he could help you out it'd be great. guys are more open and feel like they don't have to live up to past experiences if they know they're the first. he'll appreciate your honesty too.
i hope i've helped! if you ever need advice, you know where to find me!
always,
Carly
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No, that's not weird.
I mean really.
You're fourteen.
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no its def. not weird.. my cousin that is 17 just got her first kiss on valentines day.. hahaha not mentioning what cousin.. but theres def. nothing wrong with that.. if he doesnt make a move.. dont act all nervous.. just go with it!
hope i helped! lots of love! ~rachel leigh~
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it'll just come naturally. and just play it cool and dont get to nervus.
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No its not weird. A lot of people are your age and older and havent made out yet. Dont worry! And if something does happen this weekend, just be calm and cool and have fun! If your scared about not knowing what to do..dont worry...you'll see that its easy and there are no tips anyone can give you. Just go with the flow ;) and have fun!
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