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I feel like the worst person in the world. On March 17 me and my boyfriend of 3 years got into a huuuge fight because he cheated on me. Our relationship was sooo good and we always got told that we were the role model for couples, well anyways..we got into a huge fight and we said things that we didnt mean and I told him that I wish he wasnt in my life and he would just die because I hated him so much, those were my exact words. Later that night at 11:26 I got a phone call from his sister (we were really close, she was like a little sister to me) she was crying really hard and she told me that she had found him in his room laying on the floor, dead. I didnt even know what to do with myself. He had taken a gun to his head. She read me a note that he left and it said "I'm so sorry, I love you so much" thats all it said, and he had the date that we started going out until forever carved into his arm. That night when my parents found out they tried to comfort me and all that but I just didnt want to be around anyone. I went to my room and I cut myself so bad and my mom walked in and stopped me and just held me and I cried for hours, with my wrists bleeding, and I fell asleep crying in my moms arms. I'm getting help now. I went to his funeral and it was the hardest thing I've ever had to do in my life, I fell to the floor when I went up to his casket at the wake and his mom had to pick me up and just hold me while we cried. I go to his house all the time and talk to his family and just tell them how sorry I am and we talk about all of our memories. I havent slept since the night it happened, and I havent been to school, the doctors say I probably wont go to school for about another month, I might be homeschooled. I can't even look at myself anymore. I can't beleive those hateful words were the last words I ever got to tell the love of my life. I'm sorry it is really long but does anyone have any advice on how to help me get through this? (link)
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oh my gosh.. i'm so sorry. I just read this and started to cry. I will pray for you and i hope everything will turn out ok. i would be said but whatever you do dont cut yourself! that's so not good for you trust me some friends i know and i've done it and it's horrible. everything will be okay.
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ok im 16 and my bf is 19......he was a pub. safety off. at the local mall and a girl he worked wit asked him out and he said no because he had a girlfriend (mind you she is his age) so my bf got fired and now that he dont work there evrytime i go to the mall shes always on my ass...and just friday she almost threw me out of the mall because i raised my voice to a girl who was talkin shit bout me........is there a possibility i can get her fired?....and will it get my bf in trouble for datin a 16yr old?
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it is only illegal if you had sex with your 19 yr old b/f and if i were you i'd comment about the girl to her manager and just see if she'll get fired. hope it helps
~megan
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my sisters know almost all my business. i tell them almost everything and there 11 and im 15. is it bad that they know about my personal stuff? (link)
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my sister is 11 and she knows my personal stuff and it is not good that she does, but everyone is different. it wouldn't be good if they knew if you couldn't trust them with your personal stuff. hope it helps
~ megan
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breaking up with your boyfriend for his best friend...?
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still going out with him because he's a really good guy and you're afraid to break his heart...?
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what should I do, because my boyfriend is the most amazing guy ever, and he'd cry and be depressed for months if anything happened. But I just don't have feelings for him anymore, and his friend and I like eachother... help! (link)
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if you have no feelings for your b/f then you should dump him and go out with his friend but don't go out with him right after you dump your b/f b/c that will just look bad. hope it helps
~megan
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I am 14,female.i dated this guy for 4 months(my first relationship. at first i didnt like this asshole at all but as the months passed i started to fall for him crazy. not experiouncing these feelings Ever, i was confused and depressed because i knew he would never like me as much as I did. so when he found out i liked him that much he started to take advantage of me. now im usually not the type to let ANYONE push me around but since i went gaga and stupid everytime i saw him i let him.so my friends forced me to break up with him but i got back with him in the next day. but then HE broke up with me just to laugh at my face. i still really like him(god knows why).i would still really like sweet revenge on this guy.what is the best revenge on this guy?making him jelouse?or just embaressing him? (link)
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forget about him, he's not worth your time i'm sure your a great girl there is plenty of more ducks in the pond (hm.. random quote made by muah!!) lol well i hope soon you find someone new and not as much as an ass! much luv
~megan (n amy)
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i have a friend, this friend likes to punch me and it really hurts. how do i get her to stop cause like ill punch her back but its not to bee lik mean but its in self defence and lik i want her to know what it feels lik. i still wannna be her friend though cause lik shez my bff and i dont want to ruin our friendship.i hope u no who this is. (link)
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rebecca you silly ass i luv ya and i'd never try 2 hurt you! i only joke aroud but i havent done it that much lately only when you punch back! just forgive me! i luv ya muah
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I'm 14 and I've never made out with a guy, but I think something might happen with this kid this weekend. I don't really know what I'm doing so does anyone have advice? Is it weird that I've never made out with anyone? (link)
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It's no big deal, you should make out with someone when you feel it is the right time, place, and person. hope it helps
~megan
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so at my school if you dont live in greystone {The rich part} or wear abercrombi (which i think is pointless to pay 80 bucks for prefaded and pre riped jeans)any way if you arent privledged then ure pretty much the scum of the earth.All the punks have spiked or really long hair and wear black shirts and riped jeans. all the preps wear collerd shirts and north face jakets. any way they label the rich kids preps and the middle class to lower class punks. So punks hang out with punks and preps with preps but, this prep likes me and i like her and every one knows so we are both hated by our own soacial clases. so what should we do
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all i can say is fuk labels! if your social group won't accept you for who you like than they aren't worth it! (i'm middle class and im not considered a punk or prep i dont have a label) and if you like the girl and the girl likes you you should go out!
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heyy i have a friend, and shes told me some stuff i really dont know about, and she keeps on telling me this stuff (the stuff i dont want to know about)...what should i do ,yo//? (link)
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i really dont know what to tell you because im going throught the same thing and all i can say is tell her how you really think about the situation hope it helps
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I just found out my boyfriend is a bisexual...i don't know what to do, it freaks me out
Lucy (link)
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hey every girl likes a guy like that because he has friends,wink wink, haha just kidding, no seriously i think you should just still go out with him but see if he likes girls more than boys cuz if he like boys more than girls that is freaky n u should dump him
~megan
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I'm really scared. I will soon have to have 2 teeth pulled! I was wondering how much it hurts, can you feel them actually pulling the teeth out, and how long it takes for it to stop hurting after you get them pulled. Please help! I'm really scared!!! I rate 5's by the way. (link)
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i got a tooth pulled out but the thing was i got high on the sleeping gas so... it sucked ass for me i hope its better for you!
~megan
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i have just broken up with my boyfriend who i had been going out with for 8 months. it was the first time i loved someone, he came over nearly everyday. we broke up because he was taking me for granted and always ditching me and saying nasty things to me.. and then sometimes he was awesome. we have broken up and got back together in the past and but i dont want that to happen again. i miss him so so so much and i do still like him but i cant take any more abuse. wats the best way to get over someone.. im trying sooo hard not to call him please help! (link)
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ok he is not worth it from what i see and i think you should start trying to get to kow other boys that are single see if they are sweet try to not think about your ex it may be hard but its probaly good for you. hope it helps!
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Lately I cant constritate on my school work. My grades are slipping and I hate all my teachers. One teacher really hates me and never wants to help me. My parents think I`m doing super super great and if I get a lower then a B on my report card I would get in trouble. I`m having other problems right now and school is just my last thing to worry about. We are having a huge test Thursday and if we fail this we fail the grade. By the way I`m 13/f. I need to do really good on this test and what is the best way to constratrate on studying and doing good on this test? Thanks! (link)
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all i can say is studay as hard as you can, set aside about 15 minutes each day b4 the test and try you best on the test! hope it helps
~megan
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My boyfriend treats me more like a friend. He says he loves me but he won't hold hands with me or kiss me or touch me at all. I know not everyone likes that stuff, but I just feel like I'm doing something wrong. I'm embarassed to talk about it. What should I say? Do you think I might offend him? (link)
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my best friend is exactly like your boyfriend. she wasnt close to her b/f at all and now they are broken up and she seriously regrets not being close to him. But still anyways if he says he loves u and u love him dont dump him because he's not huggy lovey type hope it helps
~megan~
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my lil bro is 7 we share a room and i have a double bed and sometimes he gets scared of thunder cause hes a light sleeper and im not so he gets woken and i dont ANYWAY he got freacked by some thunder and so did i so i didnt object when he hopped in next to me but i got woken up a bit later by him touching my penis and rubbing my leg with his foot neither of us have said anything what should i do (link)
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first you need 2 tell your parents and you, your parents, and your brother need to talk 2 him about that. hope it helps
~megan
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I really don't know what to put this quesion under. But here goes..... does anyone know where I can find the screenplay Mean Girls?? I need it really bad so if anyone knows where I can find it, that wuld be great. I sorta need it A.S.A.P.!
Thanks again,
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its probaly on imdb.com if not look it up on google
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Does anyone know where I can find one of those tshirts that say "I need a hug" or something like that?? Or does anyone know where I can find any other cute tshirts that say cute stuff like that?? I've been looking for them for like forever and I cant find any!! Thanks!! (link)
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my friend has a "i need a hug" pin on her messenger purse from hot topic
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i have been in a bad mood for the past week.. is it stress.. how do i get over it?? (link)
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relax... calm down, inhale exhale, just try to forget about all of your worries everything will be okay
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how do i congradulate a friend who made it on to a competition? (link)
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is that a tricky question?
give her a card or tell her in person:
congratulations on making it to the competiton!
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ohkay! im punished and i cant watch tv for a week but my favorite shows are coming on! what do i dew? (link)
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tape your favorite shows!
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