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break ups
i have just broken up with my boyfriend who i had been going out with for 8 months. it was the first time i loved someone, he came over nearly everyday. we broke up because he was taking me for granted and always ditching me and saying nasty things to me.. and then sometimes he was awesome. we have broken up and got back together in the past and but i dont want that to happen again. i miss him so so so much and i do still like him but i cant take any more abuse. wats the best way to get over someone.. im trying sooo hard not to call him please help!
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To get over your ex-boyfriend, you need to tell yourself that you don't deserve to be hurt by this guy and that there are so many other great guys out there that will treat you right. Start talking to more people, especially guys, and get to know them. Talk to your friends and they will help you out with getting over your ex-boyfriend. It sounds like your ex-boyfriend doesn't care about the way you feel and he shouldn't say nasty things to you. You will eventually get over this guy, it will just take time and effort.
-Karen
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ok he is not worth it from what i see and i think you should start trying to get to kow other boys that are single see if they are sweet try to not think about your ex it may be hard but its probaly good for you. hope it helps!
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Everytime you want to call him, think of all the hurtful things he's said to you, all the times he's made you feel worthless, and all of the times he's made you feel low. Then, use that extreme anger constructively. Get a job, work on homework, hang out with friends, go shopping, ANYTHING, because I know EXACTLY what you're going through. I'm going through it right now.
Just do something to occupy your time.
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anonymous -
If your old enough, hit the clubs! Just mingle with new guys and friends and don't worry about your ex too much. Just remember, life is short, and you don't want to spend it with a guy who treats you like that. Hope this helps!
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ng time consuming something YOU like -- Its gunna take time, but think of how he hurt you, you dont want that again its not fair...hang with the girls -- Let them know whats goign on theyll help you through it
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