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What 2 do? Friend or +?
My boyfriend treats me more like a friend. He says he loves me but he won't hold hands with me or kiss me or touch me at all. I know not everyone likes that stuff, but I just feel like I'm doing something wrong. I'm embarassed to talk about it. What should I say? Do you think I might offend him?
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If I was you, I would dump him and find someone better. He could just think that you two would be better off as friends. This happened to me, but I ended up getting cheated on. Dump his ass and get someone who ill show you what love really is. Hope I helped!
TarA
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Why dont you just tell him that you have feelings for him and you dont wanna mess around if he wants to mess around maber you should just be friends
tell him that you love having a laugh with him some times but you would like him to be more romantic and sweet to you
roxie
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he's probably just nervous and new to it. my first boyfriend was like that. eventually, once he gets used to it, he'll get over it.
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I think that's pretty normal. It just sounds like your boyfriend is the type to not touch as much. That, or maybe you're passed the puppy love stage where you have to show the world you're in love (not that that's a bad thing). It doesn't mean he thinks of you as a friend--he probably doesn't even actually realize it. If you are really upset about it and think it might be your fault, the only thing you can really do is ask him about it. I understand that could be embarrassing, but a way to bring it up woud be to maybe grab his hand or something once, and if he doesn't accept it, bring it up by asking what's the matter. I don't think you would offend him as long as you explained yourself and your concern. Like I said, he may not even realize you want him to do that stuff! Good luck! :)
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my best friend is exactly like your boyfriend. she wasnt close to her b/f at all and now they are broken up and she seriously regrets not being close to him. But still anyways if he says he loves u and u love him dont dump him because he's not huggy lovey type hope it helps
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My friend went out with a guy like that.He sounds really prude... Maybe he's just really nervous, or he's really religious and his religion wont let him. He could have strict parents as well. I think you should ask him. It wont offend him if you love him so much you want to take it to the next level. Just tell him you really want to kiss or at least hold hands, but you dont want to push him. That you just want to understand better why he doesnt want to. Sorry I cant help more...
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My bf isnt a teddybear either. He's shy. Well was. I Just was like nathan .. :( why dont u ever kiss me or hug me or cuddle with me on your own.. i feel unloved. You just gotta point it out there. I felt dumb.. but i got more loving. You probably wont offend him your just helping him out .. hes probably shy and nervous around it. Its pretty cute cuz he doesnt wanna lose you-trix
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He's offending you by not holding your hand or kissing you so what does it matter if you make him a little upset by talking about it? You only get as much as you give and he'll never know how you feel if you don't say something.
Speak up or you won't ever be heard.
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i think u shold tell him how u feel. he shouldn't take it personally. i hope i helped!
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you have to talk to him. ask him whats wrong and figure it out.
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He might be to shy about it and if he does love you and you love him you shouldnt be to shy to say anything....or maybe he just wants to take it slow
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Well Thats a tough one. If it continues like that without n e change, you should bring it up in a conversation, he will probially understand. If not maybe hes not the one for you.
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he probably likes you but he might be shy and dont me embarassed to talk to him about it. its better for him to know how you feel then for you to keep feeling like this. you should make the first move tho! x0
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