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Okay, well i need help with my room. I'm 13 by the way. Okay, so I'm not allowd to paint my walls, and I just got $6000, custommade furniture. But, the thing is, my walls look really empty...I need somthing coolin my room, im a guy. does anyone hae any ideas
What I did for my room is I went to art.com and found prints that I like on there. There are SO many. Then, either get them framed right on that site and they can ship them to you, or frame them yourself in poster frames from Target or something for cheaper.
What I did is I have black funriture and white walls so I got black and white prints and framed them in black frames and put them all over my room.
But this would work with color prints or anything, it's cheap and it adds a lot to the room without painting, I think!
Something else you could do is check out the Trading Spaces webpage, they have their old projects on there and stuff and you might get some cool wall ideas.
Good luck! Rooms can be fun!
Ok, Last nite my b/f told me that he smokes. I didnt really know what to do. I mean I dont want him to smoke and he said that he's trying to stop and its not really working. I dont know what to do. Can someone plz help me cuz itz like really annoying me that he smokes. I mean its not really a big deal but I just dunno....
I would just tell him exactly what you just posted. Tell him you don't like it that he smokes and you're worried about his health and you don't think that he seems like a smoker. I mean, he told you he smokes so it's not like he's trying to hide it from you. You just have to keep on him about quitting and remind him why you don't like it. Good luck!
how do i congradulate a friend who made it on to a competition?
Send a card, write a note, do something nice like bake him/her cookies or buy some nice flowers. Mention that they have had a great accomplishment and reasons you are proud of them. That will make him/her feel good and even more proud.
does anyone know any good products or home remedies to get rid of dark circles?? thanks... i rate high
Circles under your eyes I'm assuming? Well of course you can use cucmber slices--those are supposed to reduce swelling I think. You could purchase one of those blue gel masks that you put in the fridge and wear it overnight or even just for a little bit as they recommend. And actually, I just heard this one on the Oscars (it is kind of weird) but I guess the movie stars put Preparation H under their eyes before they go to the Oscars because it reduces swelling. I don't know for sure if that works, but I'm assuming they know more than I do! Good Luck :)
here it goes- i am 14 years old, and i still havent gotten my period.. is that a bad thing? or is it normal? please help!
That is a really normal thing. I know a lot of people who got it before that age, a lot at that age, and a lot after. Bodies mature at different rates, and you are right in the middle of puberty age ranges. You have nothing to be worried about. You are completely normal.
My boyfriend treats me more like a friend. He says he loves me but he won't hold hands with me or kiss me or touch me at all. I know not everyone likes that stuff, but I just feel like I'm doing something wrong. I'm embarassed to talk about it. What should I say? Do you think I might offend him?
I think that's pretty normal. It just sounds like your boyfriend is the type to not touch as much. That, or maybe you're passed the puppy love stage where you have to show the world you're in love (not that that's a bad thing). It doesn't mean he thinks of you as a friend--he probably doesn't even actually realize it. If you are really upset about it and think it might be your fault, the only thing you can really do is ask him about it. I understand that could be embarrassing, but a way to bring it up woud be to maybe grab his hand or something once, and if he doesn't accept it, bring it up by asking what's the matter. I don't think you would offend him as long as you explained yourself and your concern. Like I said, he may not even realize you want him to do that stuff! Good luck! :)
i just got a new rabbit and i have never had one before so i know nothing about them! i know that they have to be kepy in shade but thats about it! i need to know how big the cage should be and what you need in the cage. what do they eat? i am also kinda afraid that everytime i pick it up it will bit me....i guess i think that cause my cat bits me...do rabbits even bit? i guess i pretty much need to know everything about them....so if you have the time, please tell me! thanks! i'll rate!
I had a rabbit awhile back. I can tell you one piece of advice: Keep playing with it and taking it out and stuff. I eventually started to take mine out less and less, and eventually it got really mean and I couldn't even take him out when I wanted to, which was sad. So that's one thing I can say, if you keep taking them out al the time they stay used to people and they stay nice. Aside from that, I guess I'm not really a rabbit expert-I just fed mine normal rabbit food and kept its water full. Just wanted to warn you about the paying with them thing :) Good Luck
Last night the guy I liked met my mom and stuff it went good got a hug and stuff. Then today he called sayin the age difference he want sot be friends because if he ges a job we wouldnt be able to see each other and wants to hang out and talk to me because he thinks im the coolest person ever and it makes his day when he gets to talk to me. Then he called me saying I thought I would let you know it was gonna snow when he told me this earlier what does he mean? Does he still like me? Please help I rate high
I think he still likes you. He just might be confused right now. If he didn't like you, though, he wouldn't have given you the compliment (that when he talks to you it makes his day) and he wouldn't still want to call you. Just wait it out. It just might be a time of confusion for him since he met your mom and all. Everything will probably work itself out over time. Good luck :)
im 16!
im scared to french kiss a guy and theres this one guy that i really like an he likes me to but everytime im with him i get scared an i just kiss him on the lips an no more. im scared im goign to do it wrong or something . i dunno what to do
You don't have to be scared. There's nothing you can really do to prepare. When it happens you will sort of just know what to do. It's hard to give instructions because it depends on the moment and the situation but, just kinda go with the flow and you should be just fine.
On monday 7th I went to the movies with this guy I like him and he asked me out and I said YES. (doesnt go to my school). On tuesday 8th some guy I also liked asked me out after school (goes to my school) I said YES. I was going to break up with one of them but I dont know which one I should break up with. I think the guy who goes to my school is going out to get laid and bc im older then him n he likes me. Then the other guy is going out with me bc he likes me and wants to get laid. BUT then again all guys want to get laid. Who do I chose or how do I chose one?
Choose the guy that you think actually likes you for you. Yes, all guys want to get laid, but they can want that while liking only specifically you. Trust your instinct.
i live in a two family apartment and my aunt lives in the room below me and she got a new boy friend and every night and day all i hear is them screamin and mooanin and the bed squeeking they have already broke 2 beds and are buying another and i hate both of them i only my baby cousin grey i feel bad for him i want to adopt him but im only 14 but im his god mother i guess that counts what can i do about both problems?
-Kaylor
Well, that's quite a problem. There's not much you can do I guess but to talk to someone about your living situation (and your cousin's). Since your cousin can't speak for himself, you should voice your concern to someone before he grows up and realizes what's going on. That's not right--niether of you should be living that way. Talk to someone that you trust and tell them what's going on.
im mad scared of spiders and the other day my math teacher threw a dead spider on my head and i was freakin out and cryin and i told the principle and now the teachers caliin me a liar ugh i hate him
I would say that you need to have a talk with the principal and you teacher at the same time. Go over the situation and say what it was that upset you. Your teacher should admit that he was at fault, and if he wont, you will need to discuss it with the principal one on one. If your principal is a fair person, he/she will hear you out and talk to your teacher for you.
my dogs really stupid i think she is blind and cant smell ill throw her food and it takes her an hour to find it when its right in front of her in the first place and shes mad stupid she only knos how to give kisses and go get your toy what can i do with her to make her smarter
Maybe your dog isn't so much stupid but maybe he/she has a vision problem? I don't think there's a whole lot you can do to make a dog smarter, though. You have to train them when they're young for them to be able to be trained easily, and well, their intelligence isn't something you can change. Just be nice to your dog, dogs are very affectionate animals and they just need attention. Be patient with him/her.
so I like this guy, he knows that I like him.. but I don't know if he likes me.. but I do know that he has NeVeR made out or anything.. I have never made out or french kissed anyone. I'm going to ask this guy out.. and I'm hoping he will say yes, if I do ever like go to the movies with him.. what do I do, cause you know how people say, that the guy will lead the way? well that won't really work because be have never made out.. so what in the nation am I sopost to do?
thanks!
Well, you have both never kissed anyone, correct? So, it's up to one of you to decide whether or not you want to kiss each other. If you want to kiss him, you are going to have to make the first move when you feel right. Just go for it. Who knows? He might make it before you. Everything should fall into place. Don't get too stressed out about it. THese things just happen and work themselves out.
I`ve had a problem with confidence. I always let what people say, get to my head. Does anyone have any advice on how to raise my confidence?
I think everyone at some point has had a problem with confidence. It's normal to let what people say get to your head. You can't help that. Just do your best to not let them convince you that they are right. More than likely people just say things to be mean. You have to remember that. People don't always think before they speak. Don't let anyone affect what you think of yourself.
okay. i have a blind date this friday. what do i do ? we are going to the movies to see constantine those who have seen it, is it good? look, it's my first blind date ever and i have no idea what it's gonna be like. what do i do if he is gross and like tries to do something in the movie? what do i do if he hates me and i like him? is there anything i can do to make sure i can escape if i need to or something? Please help!
signed,
blinded
Ahh. Blind dates. Well, there's not a whole lot you can to to prepare for this before it actually happens. You can talk to the person who set you up and find out more about him, but that's about it. I would say just look nice, be yourself. Chances are he will be a normal guy and not do anything like you suggested. However, I do know how it is to be a girl and always expected the worst case scenario. So, the answer to your question is you just have to play it by ear. If he does something that makes you uncomfortable, tell him. Make sure that you are always yourself. You don't want him do anything that you don't like. I am sure he will not hate you. However, in the worst case scenerio if you need to escape, I would recommend just telling him that he made you feel uncomfortable, and calling someone to pick you up. Or, give him the cold shoulder -- let him know his behavior is not acceptable by you, and when you get home you are safe. Good luck..
today there was this party at one of my friends house i was all ready to go and i looked really cute but then i got this call from my mom and she said it wasnt ok to go to the party because there were drugs in my friends house (because his mother is a drugattic)and also his stepdad got into a fight with the gand group called hells angels so that means that the gang may come to my friends house and try to hurt him or one of his family members at anytime and i have three problems with this 1. is most of my friends didnt go to the party but four of them did and i want to make sure they are ok how would i go about that because i am not sure if they know about all the mad stuff in our friends house and i dont want to tell them because my friend who had the party doesnt kno any of this and i dont want to embarris him 2. i think my friend who had the party might be mad at me for not going (and the otehr people that ddint go) because he doesnt know why we didnt so we had to make these realyl dumb excusses up and i feel bad for him is there any way to tell if he is upset with us? 3. im really worried about my friend who had the party because it is a very unsafe place to be i mean there is drugs in there and his mother could get arrested in front of him at any time (and that might damange him for life if he sees that)and the gang might rob or come into there house at anytime and try to kill them is there anyway to keep my friend safe?
thanks for reading this all i am very greatful because i really want to help my friend out
Wow. That is a difficult situation for anyone to be in. The only thing you can really do is ask your frineds how the party went without mentioning anything else. See what they say about it. Your friend may be mad at you for not going, but you did the right thing, and your mom was right to not let you go. Just explain to your friend that your mom didn't want you to go. Ask him if he is upset that you didn't show up and talk to him and try to make him feel better about it without bringing eanything else up. You have every right to be worried about your friend. That is a very dangerous situation for him to be in. However, unfortunately, there's not a whole lot you can do about it. Maybe you could talk to your parents about any options you may have to keep your friend safe (if they have an answer within the community or something) but other than that, you should probably just not say anything at all. Just resolve things with your friend--that's the best thing you can really do in this situation. The rest is beyond your control.