so I like this guy, he knows that I like him.. but I don't know if he likes me.. but I do know that he has NeVeR made out or anything.. I have never made out or french kissed anyone. I'm going to ask this guy out.. and I'm hoping he will say yes, if I do ever like go to the movies with him.. what do I do, cause you know how people say, that the guy will lead the way? well that won't really work because be have never made out.. so what in the nation am I sopost to do?
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maggi3x0 answered Monday February 21 2005, 5:24 pm: well of course you cant forse anyone to kiss you so maybe if he says yes then on your first date you can give him a friendly hug and then on the next date if you do go again... maybe you can flirt with him and he will kiss you if the majic is there <3 good luck !! =] [ maggi3x0's advice column | Ask maggi3x0 A Question ]
greencard answered Monday February 21 2005, 3:30 pm: I thought the same thing about my current boyfriend. I thought I'd be the first one to make the moves, and everything. But, he suprised me. When I first went over to his house, he was the one who kissed me. I think that you should wait, and if by the middle of the movie he hasn't tried to even hold your hand, grab his hand and hold it. Then, kind of just stare at him, until he looks over at you. And finally, just lean in and kiss him. [ greencard's advice column | Ask greencard A Question ]
Crystal_Lake answered Monday February 21 2005, 12:36 pm: Ok good for you for asking him out. Thats on e step, then yeah ask to go to the movies...see a comedy or horror but not action film. Trust me. Lol! But anyways when or if he puts his arm around you its a go. he will start to leen in and then will make his move. he will go at least 3/4 of the way but it is up to you to go the extra bit. Close your eyes after he closes his and the once your lips touch just go with it. if it is just maiking out then there is nothing to worry about but if it is frenching then keep your eyes closed, dont wear lip gloss or anything bc it makes you slip, and just follow his lead by example...It is not hard at all....Hope it all works out!
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c_assi_e_x_12 answered Monday February 21 2005, 11:26 am: You don't necessarily have to make out at the movies. You could simply hold hands or cuddle while you watch the movie. If the both of you haven't made out or anything, then maybe you guys aren't really ready. Making out is something that has to be special....and you have to make sure you're completely ready.
ThugGirl041790 answered Monday February 21 2005, 10:30 am: Well if its your first date maybe like hold hands or something first.. dont rush into things so fast.. you wanna make sure he's comfortable too..so ask him one day if he'd like to kiss or something..much luv dez [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
Kels answered Monday February 21 2005, 9:02 am: ask him.
JennyP23 answered Monday February 21 2005, 4:15 am: Well, you have both never kissed anyone, correct? So, it's up to one of you to decide whether or not you want to kiss each other. If you want to kiss him, you are going to have to make the first move when you feel right. Just go for it. Who knows? He might make it before you. Everything should fall into place. Don't get too stressed out about it. THese things just happen and work themselves out. [ JennyP23's advice column | Ask JennyP23 A Question ]
Playbunnay answered Monday February 21 2005, 3:04 am: well... then make ur move on him.. lol.. when ur sitting there in the mvies.. grab his hand and hold it or something lol.. and if sometime he looks at u.. look at him too and just BABOOM kiss him.. haha <33 [ Playbunnay's advice column | Ask Playbunnay A Question ]
IloveItaly answered Monday February 21 2005, 2:34 am: Well, I am not the best person to give advice about this question but I think you should start off with a smaller date like go to starbucks, the mall or just hang out or something I hope this helps !! GOOD LUCK!! [ IloveItaly's advice column | Ask IloveItaly A Question ]
soccerandhockey!!! answered Monday February 21 2005, 2:10 am: hmm thats a difficult question but maybe, since you are unsure of what to do at the movies, ( and since i dont have great relationship experiences) i think you should try something easier as a first date and an ice breaker. I would suggest the mall, or maybe to go get ice cream???? i really hope this helps! [ soccerandhockey!!!'s advice column | Ask soccerandhockey!!! A Question ]
TheTeenGirl answered Monday February 21 2005, 2:00 am: I'm thinking you should wait a while, I mean, you should start planning this later on when you know he said yes, and you guys have been dating for at least like 2 or 3 weeks. But about that, you shouldn't be moving so fast to get your first kiss, I know it sounds like its the most important thing in the world and it makes you more experianced and cool, but it actually doesn't, now don't get me wrong, kissing can be really good and sweet and really precious, but you should be patient, that way when you think back you'll just know that you went at your own pace with that kind of stuff in life. But if when the time comes, I'm sure he will approach you at kissing first, and if not, you can go first and give it a try. I hope he says yes though!
brunetteAmor answered Monday February 21 2005, 1:35 am: first figure out how the mood is.. beleive it or not he might not be ready to start kissing just yet if its his first time.. but if you arent sure talk to him about it.. talking about it will get you more informed on what to do plus you guys will feel more comfortable around each other and start forming a great relationship. [ brunetteAmor's advice column | Ask brunetteAmor A Question ]
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