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Hey guys!! My name's Tiffany- Im a 17 year old from Cancun Mexico.. Im deeply in love with the love of my life Brian, needless to say in the past I have had plenty of experiences some great and some that have changed my life making me a person that has great advice and is always helping others *Im here to answer any of your needy questions.. feel free to ask me anything! :xOxO

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ok i need a serious answer on this because i am really confused. i want to shave "down there" but i don't know how because last time i did i got major razor burn and itched forever and it was soooo uncofortable so i don't know how to do it and how much to take off... do you shave all of it off? please help

I shave going downward because when I shave up i get a razor burn too so it works a lot better.. it doesnt shave as much off though so like I dont know if youre going to hook up with a guy but then just do it downward and then go upward for any touch ups.. this way i dont think will be so irritating. i dont know if lotion is such a good idea because it might burn like hell but maybe not so try it if you want. hope i helped! xox

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How is the best way to get a tan? Sun or tanning salon. I need one bad after this winter I am so pale. Any ideas?

I love going to tanning beds because you can do it even when the sun isnt out and it only takes like 20 minutes.. but tanning in the sun is probably funner. I think that you will probably get a better tan in a bed.

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I'm really skinny, especially my arms. I wanna build muscle in them, especially in my wrists cuz my wrists are so small and they make my arms look akward. What are some good excercises to build muscle in my arms? Thanks!

really the only thing you can do is go to a gym and work your arms out.. there are a whole lot of workouts you can do on the machines.. what you would really want to work out is called your fore arm.. it will look great with some shape on your arms! hope I helped xox!

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Okay.. I'm 14 and a female.. I've had my period since like 6 or 7th grade now I am in 9th.. It's been pretty regular for the most part! Well like the week before new years I got my period.. then I went to my friends house on new years and my ex bf was there. He still liked me and he was acting pretty fricken horny.. well hey it was new years so I got really drunk.. I only remember parts of what happened! Anyways I felt kinda weird the next day.. I thought it was just like the hangover or something because I mean I didn't know.. I don't get drunk a lot!! Well anyways.. it's now February..almost March and I haven't got my period at all!! I don't know what happened between me and my ex.. I have a bad feeling he took advantage of me when I was drunk and took my virginity! The thing is if I am pregnant by any chance... it wouldn't be rape.. at that time.. I might have wanted it! Does anyone know what I can do.. I am going to take a pregnancy test and all I just don't know if I should be looking for signs.. I have gained weight since then too.. not a lot but like 5 pounds! I am really small too I went from 89 to 94 in the past month and a half! Should I be having any discharge or what?? Someone help please!

well i went through maybe being pregnant too and it is the worst thing ever being all worried and stuff.. I know that some signs are that if after a month you dont have your period thats a huge sign of being pregnant, other symptoms are having to pee more than usual, having your boobs sore, darker nipples, morning sickness, food cravings and headaches.. if you really want to know go buy a test.. you dont have to be a certain age or have a parent.. if you are pregnant think about what you want to do with your baby, I dont think just yet that you should tell your Bf.. but talk to your parents about it before telling him because he might not be mature enough to handle the news..I hope I helped and hope everything will go well for you. anymore questions just ask! Xox

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i have THE WORST acne on my back and no matter how much i wash it it WONT go away. i want to have in gone by soon bc its getting warmer and i want to wear tops w/o a back. PLEASE give me some suggestions

my friend had really bad acne and she used Proactive it worked really well on her face but even better on her back! try it! hope I helped Xox

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omg my hair is sooo frizzy and i dont know what to do about it! i've tried many products but nothing seems to work!

please help!

My hair is the same.. staightening it is a really good idea.. the best hair straightener is called Chi.. but if you dont want to straighten it then maybe you should try some of John Freida's products.. they are really top of the line for frizz. more questions? Ask! Xox

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i live in a warm tropical country and i was wondering what perfume would still smell great after about 4 hours in humid weather? something fresh and clean, and will not smell sour later on =) thanks

any of Victorias Secret parfumes are good.. and if you want to go a little on the expensive side Gucci Rush is really nice

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how do u give a hand job?

the way that I do it that my boyfriend really likes is make a ring with your thumb and forefinger and pump up and down with this ring... when you get to the top close the ring, then make him squeeze his way in as you slide back down to the bottom as if he just stuck it in you. using lubricant is a really really good idea.. it will make it more like having sex for him.. If you know he is about to cum start going faster making long fast strokes.. when hes cumming stroke a whole lot around the head with your whole hand instead of the ring.. hope I helped any more questions tell me!Xox

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i like guys and stuff,and in real life i look at girls (im a girl) brest...and butt...and i make out with guys.am i bi?

Youre bi if you physically would do someting with a girl.. I mean more than make out.. Looking at butts and boobs are fine but actually having sexual feelings for a girl and you know if you would go further than kissing then yes you are bi. Any more ?s check out my Column and ask! Xox

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im a 16 year old female and my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 months... we have had sex in the past btu today i let him take my anal virginity... and it hurt really bad... now i knwo the first time it will hurt that is just a given but will it always hurt? i want to do it again cuz the good feeling i got out of it was really good but the pain was really bad... will that eventually go away? i have one more question... i swore on my life i would never let anyone take my anal virginity but i let him to show him how comftorble i am with him and how much i love him but now im having the feeling somethings going to go wrong... am i just thinking to much because of the trust i put into him or what? im so confused please help?

hey.. Ive been with my boyfriend for 11 months now and we just tried anal sex about 2 months ago. At first for me it didnt hurt too much because what we had done is got lubricant and stuck one finger in and kind of finger me and then stick 2 in and then he stuck it in. It really really helped loosening it up because we had tried it before without loosening and I swore i would never do it again because it hurt sooo bad. So your question was will it always hurt.. no it wont always hurt.. just try loosening it up with some lubricant or baby oil or even lotion and then later it wont be so hard sticking it in i swear. Later on it will start feeling really good if youre into it. Im not sure what you mean by about something going wrong .. like in your relationship? well talk to him about it.. if he loves you and is comfortable with you also then talking about it wont be a problem. It will start being really fun going from doing it in your vagina and then sticking it your anus and back and forth and stuff. Just to add my favorite position to do it is either from the back like doggy style and the other is you lying on your back like on a coach or bed with him on the side of the coach/bed and you having your legs bent on your chest.. If you have any more questions leave one in my inbox or email brunettebabi716@yahoo.com or IM me at AIM XlatincurvesX.. k I hope I hepled! xox

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I have a Honda Civic 97', and I haven't been driving that long. I'm just getting used to the clutch and I've almost worn it out and its getting really spongey. Are there any "homemade mods" or cheap parts I could buy to fix it?

Stop riding on the clutch ( like holding it while driving) and just get a new one.

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whats the difference between being christian and catholic?

in Catholic churches they not only worship Jesus but also the Virgin Mary and all of the Saints..where as in Christianity they belive that Jesus (God) is the only one way (which it says this in the Bible) .. if you want to know where IM me at XlatincurvesX, email me at brunettebabi716@yahoo.com or leave one in my inbox.. but as I was saying, I converted from being Catholic and so did my mom last year into Christianity.

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I'm really confused, and surprised. I talked to my friend today, and we were talking about how I'm interested in Witchcraft, and then she said "Are you telling me you're a witch?"and I got kinda uncomfortable and Was like,"not really"cause I'm interested in it but I'm not one..yet. And then I asked what she thinks a witch is, and she rattled off all the storytale things, and I was really surprised. I'm trying to explain to her what modern "white"witches are, but I'm doing the best I can, but I dont know if thats good enough, I cnt eactly tell her to go look it up online.

read everbody elses oppinions but truly think about what you yourself is getting into.. witchcraft.. I guess you dont know Jesus too well huh

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so I like this guy, he knows that I like him.. but I don't know if he likes me.. but I do know that he has NeVeR made out or anything.. I have never made out or french kissed anyone. I'm going to ask this guy out.. and I'm hoping he will say yes, if I do ever like go to the movies with him.. what do I do, cause you know how people say, that the guy will lead the way? well that won't really work because be have never made out.. so what in the nation am I sopost to do?
thanks!

first figure out how the mood is.. beleive it or not he might not be ready to start kissing just yet if its his first time.. but if you arent sure talk to him about it.. talking about it will get you more informed on what to do plus you guys will feel more comfortable around each other and start forming a great relationship.

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I love skirts and i thynk they`re so cute but i`m not confident enough to wear them becuase of my legs. mainly the calfs[sp] are there any exercies i can to the thin them out? I appreciate all the advice i can get.. thanx

one way that you have your calfs so big is if you are over weight.. if that is the problem and you really want to get rid of them being so big then try to lose some weight, not so much by running ( that obviously will make it worse) but by eating well and things like that to stay healthy. If your weight isnt the problem then to tell you the truth there is nothing you can do to thin your calfs out..what you could do is try to tone your legs by working them out.. its always attracting when it shows on a girls legs that she works out and takes care on her body.. just be confident on your looks.. skirts look great on just about anyone!

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okay so my boyfriend of one month has a reputation of kinda player.. and well i knew that comin into this relationship that he might play me over like some of the other gurls.. but i really liked him alot so i took the chance. and everything has been goin good every thing is GREAT! hes always tellin me how crazy he is about me and how he only wants to b with me and how he cant stand not being with me for a day! and so it reallym akes me feel good about myself. my only concern is.. he flirts with alot of girls. and he prolly doesnt mean to its just natural i gues.. but i always get jelous! how can i cope with this? i mean i dunno how to bring this to his attention w/o sounding stupid. and i dont wanna b the jelous girlfriend.. so please help me quick! thank you

There is absolutaly NOTHING wrong with you being jealous. If he really is crazy about you and he does care about you then he wont have a problem with you asking him to stop flirting with other girls. You are not the one who needs to be accomadating him by coping with how you feel.. if he wont change for you then do the smart thing and break up with him.. he wouldnt be worth the hurt.

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when a guy is giving u a hickie, what should you do? just lay their? or do you kiss him or what im so confused?

I would say moan a little.. a guy likes to know that hes doing a good job.. if you dont feel comfortable with doing that then play around with his ear and hair.

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