okay so my boyfriend of one month has a reputation of kinda player.. and well i knew that comin into this relationship that he might play me over like some of the other gurls.. but i really liked him alot so i took the chance. and everything has been goin good every thing is GREAT! hes always tellin me how crazy he is about me and how he only wants to b with me and how he cant stand not being with me for a day! and so it reallym akes me feel good about myself. my only concern is.. he flirts with alot of girls. and he prolly doesnt mean to its just natural i gues.. but i always get jelous! how can i cope with this? i mean i dunno how to bring this to his attention w/o sounding stupid. and i dont wanna b the jelous girlfriend.. so please help me quick! thank you
CraziForRey619 answered Monday February 21 2005, 3:38 pm: Once a playa, always a playa. No matter what he might say, he is always going to be talking and flirting with girls. It's just his style, and there isn't much you can do to change it. Whenever he talks to other girls, you could just pull him away and start talking to him. Besta Luck [ CraziForRey619's advice column | Ask CraziForRey619 A Question ]
Dr.Phil answered Monday February 21 2005, 2:39 pm: 2 things.
1. kik the chick ass and tell her to stay away from him. or....
2. play his game and do the same.
brunetteAmor answered Sunday February 20 2005, 11:40 pm: There is absolutaly NOTHING wrong with you being jealous. If he really is crazy about you and he does care about you then he wont have a problem with you asking him to stop flirting with other girls. You are not the one who needs to be accomadating him by coping with how you feel.. if he wont change for you then do the smart thing and break up with him.. he wouldnt be worth the hurt. [ brunetteAmor's advice column | Ask brunetteAmor A Question ]
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