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Q: I'm taking my dog to get put down on Friday. She has cancer and is really sick. I've had her for 10 years and it's going to be really devastating. I don't know how I'm going to handle it. Has anyone else had a pet put down, how did you get over it? What's it going to feel like, no one close to me has ever died before!
im dead serious take as many pictures as you possibly can. my cat died and i loved my cat to death like i loved it so much and it died suddenly so i only have a few pictures of him and it hurts so bad inside i used to cry myself to sleep at night because he used to sleep with me and its wicked hard im sorry that your dogs dying i hope it goes well.

Q: do they hurt alot? do you have to go to the place with your hair full grow or shave kinda or trimmed? how do they do it like whats the process?
lmao rosy

Q: how do you put a tampon on? are they uncomfortable and hard to put on because I love to swim and I don't want to not be able to swim just because I have my period and I'm not usually the kind of person who sticks things up there..if you know what i mean. will it ever get stuck up there??
im not going to lie to you yah sometimes they hurt but all you do is put the applicator in and then push the thing through trust me the directions work! if your not bleeding that much it might hurt because your inside might be a little dry but if i wwere you i would use tampax regualr slender its the thinnnest one out and i know people swear by pearl but pearl leaks so i hope i helped pleaase rate high =]

Q: There is this girl that i realy like. I got her phone number. I am going to call her and ask her out to the movies or somthing.

What should i say to her when i call her? My mind is blank of all ideas right now. I want to let her know her how i feel without being too deep and emotional. Also, is there any way i can ask her out besides saying "Hey, wanna go out?" I am 13 and she is almost 14.

Thanks for your help.
just be like
you - hey
her - hi
you- so what are you doing ?
her - nothing
you - are you doing anything this weekend?
her - no why?
you - do you maybe wanna go see a movie
her - (if she likes you) yeah sure
her - (if she doesnt) umm well idk
(right there dont push it cus it means she doesnt really like you but im sure she does good luck rate high

Q: I began this diet and exercise routine in the beginning of the month and I weighed 126. Its the end of the month and now I weigh 120/121 (I yoyo between those two weights every day). I lost all the weight in the beginning, and for the past for what seems like forever NOTHING has been changin!

I havent really been focusing on losing POUNDS but losing STOMACH (I have a fat stomach, but everywhere else isnt to bad) and I feel like NOTHING is happening. I cut out most junk food (I do cheat once or twice a week and eat a tastycake or chips) but compared to what I used to be, EVERY day I'd eat junkfood. And I've cut portions and I drink a tall glass of chocomilk for breakfast everyday. And I do 7 diff. types of stomach exercises: crunches, these two my mom taught me, reverse crunch, side crunch, bicycle crunch, and ab reach. I do 30 of each (except two sets of 30 on the two diff. sides for side crunch and the ab reach you do two sets also) and I do them every night except for Saturday at like 10 at night. WHAT AM I DOING WRONG!?! Why am I at this complete standstill. I feel no more skinnier and its just. As you can see I'm completely frustrated.

Whats going on, and how can I get back on track?!
omg im having like the same problem but i fixed myself all you have do do it keep on track devote like all your time to your diet. besides not eating junk foods and excersing there is still eating healthy go to smallstep.gov (haha i saw it on a commercial and went there) and go to resources then create a diet and it shows you like how many grams of sat. fat and stuff like that you can have a day try to do 10 of each excersise int he morning beofre school if you have time do yoga palates try sports at school and do not cheat i know how tempting it is cus i cheat like evry day but just try ps. fill me in on how things go and if you wanna lose weight in your face and thin it out drink ONLY water no juice no nothing just water for 3 weeks hope i helped

taylor =]

Q: Many people on AIM with profiles iv'e seen say "via Hiptop"

any reason what that means? or does anyone know why they say that?

later

(real answers get 5s)
it doesnt mean they are using aim on there phone it means there using it on there sidekicks cus i have one

Q: whats 4th base please answer asap!! will rate
FRENCH ;; FEEL ;; FiNGER ;; FUCK..

Q: Ok, I am not a computer whiz or anything so keep that in mind with your answers.

I want to put pictures, it is a comic actually, in the comment box of one of my friends. I cannot figure out to do this, so I tried to put a link in. That didn't work either. So I was wondering if anyone could help out a girl?


Appreciated!!!
all you have to do is go to photobucket .com and save your comic strip or w.e and then press browse find your picture click upload then copy the tag code its their comment box on myspace right? well thats all you have to do hope i helped =] rate

Q: Hey I know this song is by Fall Out Boy but I just can't figure out what song it is. I've looked and searched but none of the lyrics are right. Can you guys help? Here the only parts I know.

"The pepper something something.." I'm not sure about that part. Heres the other part I know.

"Nothing comes easy when you lay in your bed all day"

Thats all I know. THANKS SO MUCH! I like the beat to the song but I can't figure out what the song is!

Xo Kristen
Nobody Puts Baby In the Corner

Q: We look eye to eye, and I'm swept away.- Rufio



what rufio song is that??
its called one slow dance

Q: ok i want to have a halloween party so about how much do you think it will all cost and what are some things to do like games and about how long should it last i rate high
ok for decorations you should go to like i party or somewhere and candy and spider webs everything it should be like 45 50 the most then when you are there have dance offs, best costume have people be like on mean girls and wear sexy stuff and end it around 11:30 it will be fun trust me and you should do it in a basement or something hope i helped plesase rate high =)

Q: I don't take very good photograths when taking them of myself I smile funny and stuff. How can I take better pictures? I just bought a mini-digital camera for $20. It's an Innovage. How can I take better pictures.
practice in front of the mirror when you smile make sure you tilt your head a little to the side put your chin up, hair down and push your tounge to the back of your front teeth so it fills in gaps and makes your smile look full please rate high hope i helped and if that dont work go to google =)

Q: what is the best way to loose weight in your inner thighs? i really want nice legs but i want something easy that i can do pretty much every night for not too long. thanks in advance!
i dont care what any one says squatting works the best because if you think about it it works all your muscles in your thighs causing them to lose fat also run anything that makes you sweat with lose weight in your thighs and in your stomach trust me but if not go to google and look something up there hope i helped please rate high =)

Q: oKay , idk the name of this song and its really pissing me off, okay its like "come away with me , to another place, and we rely on each other uh huh" plzzzzzzzzzzzz i rate high
its ghetto superstar by mya not emenim

Q: Ohkay, please no stupid answers. But one of my guy friends said that "there is nothing better than to hear a girl moan when ya finger her". does it come natural to moan or do you jus do it to make the guy happy?
both some people dont moan if they get fingered alot so they do it on purpose but alot of people it comes naturaly

Q: where can i get music off the internet? not anything like limewire or anything that i have to download?
launch.com

Q: Ok I wanna put some good songs on my iPod...if you know any good ones then answer to this ??...i rate 5s for good answers..i listen to everything but rock and classical..thanks LOADS!!!
wat da hook gon be
nasty girl
call me
grill em`
chevy
do the damn thing
gimme the light
la tortura
freak me
creep
come get some
so seductive
los pisteleros
rakata
miss you
rock the boat
try again
dirty
badd
salt shaker
moneys aint a thing
gotta getcha
run it remix
we be burnin
gold digger
bad chick
you gonna love me
notice me


if you want more im me xOo babiicakezx3

Q: ok.... i need to rdo my room... liek i need a new comforter...and like accesories.. i share my room... so i have no space at all...now.. whenever i ask for this people tell me to go to pbteen and like those places.. i do not have that much money.. i need something cheap but also something that is good... like i already checked out jcpenny, sears, macys,ikea,target,etc... so if u have any others please tell me.. or even if you have some ideas of how i could do it.. im a girly girl.. i love pink and neon green.... i hate stripes.. so maybe u can give me some ideas if you don't know any websites...
automatic 4z or 5z unless you are rude

Riss
wake up frankie.com mad cute stuff i did my room the light pink n white vs and i made my room have all the eiffel tower n paris accserories i love my room

Q: This is really embarassing but almost everyday ii wear a tight shirt i get sweat marks. I have tried many amounts of different deoderent but it just doesnt work. its really hard to deal with... right after i broke up with my boyfrined i had really big sweat marks that day and he saw... he told everyone!! someone please help.... i just started a new school and ii guess you could say i am in the popular group. if ii dont get this fixed ii dont n0 how the school year will end!! PLEASE HELP!!
thnx
omg i had the same exact problem all you have to do is go to walgreens or cvs n get this deoderant callled certain dry it works mad good you put it on before you go to but and it kinda itches and burns because its closing up your sweat pores so you dont even sweat

Q: i've had my period for about a year and a half now. i've tried using tampons but every time i do it hurts soooooooooo bad!! i can barely even get the tip in and i know i'm putting it in the right hole. i need tips on how to put tampons in because i want to use them not stupid pads. (
your cherrys probably not poppeed start doing stretches and dance alot but mostly leg stretches to hopefully srtech it

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Right Now:
What clothes are you wearing?((tank top n pajamas))
What shoes are you wearing?((im wearin socks lol))
What make-up do you have on?((none i jus woke up))
What jewelry are you wearing?((hoop earings n a diamond on the top of my ear))
How is your hair styled?((it was crunchy then i threw it in a messy bun))
How would you describe your style? ((cute idk))
What article of clothing have you outgrown but wish you hadn't? my favrit jeans:o(

This or That:
--- jeans, capris, or shorts? ((jeans))
--- t-shirt or fitted tee? ((fitted tee))
--- jacket or hoodie? ((jacket))
--- pants or dress? ((pants))
--- striped or plaid? ((plaid))
--- spaghetti strap or tank? ((spaghetti strap))
--- long-sleeves or short sleeves?((short sleeve))
--- tight-fitting or loose? ((tight))
--- american eagle or abercrombie?((abercrombie))

Favorites :
Clothing Store: ((rave, filenes, aero))
Pants You Own: ((dollhouse))
Top You Own: ((picses shirt))
Shoes: ((gray n pink airforces))

This or That :
--- sneakers or boots? ((sneakers))
--- strappy sandals or flip-flops? ((flip flops))
--- Nike or Adidas? ((nike))
--- Steve Madden or Dr. Marten? ((steve madden))
--- Converse or Vans? ((converse))

Do you own any :
--- Converse? ((no))
--- Docs? ((no))
--- Steve Maddens? ((yes))
--- Tommy? ((yes))
--- Nikes? ((yes))
--- Adidas? ((no))
--- Reebok? ((yes))
--- Vans? ((no))
--- LEI? ((yes))
--- Skechers? ((no))
--- Mudd? ((yes))
--- Candies? ((yes))
--- Timberland? ((no))
--- Air Force Ones? ((yes))

make-up :
Do you wear any of the following, and of so, what kind?
--- eyeshadow: ((sometimes))
--- Lipstick/Lip Gloss: ((victoria secret and mac lusterglass))
--- Foundation: ((no))
--- Eyeliner: ((yes too faced lava gloss (black)
--- Mascara: ((yes maybelline new york sky high))
--- Blush: ((no))
--- Powder: ((no))
--- Nail Polish: ((yah))


How old were you when you first started wearing make-up? ((12))
Must you always wear make-up? ((no))
Favorite make-up brands: ((maybelline, m.a.c.))

Jewelry :
What jewelry do you wear every day? ((earings. my tiffany bracelet broke but im gettin the tiffanys necklace))

Favorites :
type of jewelry: ((earings))
earrings: ((white gold hoops))
bracelet: ((tiffanys))
necklace: ((tiffanys))


How many piercings do you have ((3))
Do you have any tattoos ((no))
Is any of your jewelry real gold, diamond, or silver? ((yah))

Do you use any of the following?:
--- blow-dryer: ((yah))
--- straightening iron: ((yah))
--- curling iron: ((yah))
--- relaxer: ((no))

Hair Products :
--- shampoo: ((renewal, dove, fructise))
--- hair spray: ((renewal))
--- hair gel ((none))
--- hair dye: ((herbal essence))

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