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blind date
okay. i have a blind date this friday. what do i do ? we are going to the movies to see constantine those who have seen it, is it good? look, it's my first blind date ever and i have no idea what it's gonna be like. what do i do if he is gross and like tries to do something in the movie? what do i do if he hates me and i like him? is there anything i can do to make sure i can escape if i need to or something? Please help!
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To escape, it's pretty easy in the movies. If he's annyoing you halfway through the film, tell him you're going to the bathroom and then just walk straight out of the cinema. He'll love that!
I saw Constantine and I thought it was pretty good :-)
Good luck!
Sophie xxx
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Ahh. Blind dates. Well, there's not a whole lot you can to to prepare for this before it actually happens. You can talk to the person who set you up and find out more about him, but that's about it. I would say just look nice, be yourself. Chances are he will be a normal guy and not do anything like you suggested. However, I do know how it is to be a girl and always expected the worst case scenario. So, the answer to your question is you just have to play it by ear. If he does something that makes you uncomfortable, tell him. Make sure that you are always yourself. You don't want him do anything that you don't like. I am sure he will not hate you. However, in the worst case scenerio if you need to escape, I would recommend just telling him that he made you feel uncomfortable, and calling someone to pick you up. Or, give him the cold shoulder -- let him know his behavior is not acceptable by you, and when you get home you are safe. Good luck..
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-Just get through the date without worrying about anything.
-That movie was actually a really good movie so have fun.
-If he is like gross than sorry but that is your normal perverted guy sorry I can relate.
-If he hates you then sorry but you will just have to get over it and find someone else.
-Just make sure you lay down some ground rules with this guy and if you still need to escape pretend you drop your popcorn and say you have to go get some more then just make a run for it while you have the chance.
Hope I helped and please ask me any further questions you may have for me!
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Hey! I'm sorry I haven't seen that movie. I would suggest that you take a friend with you to the movie, so that you have someone there with you that you know. It would make you feel more comfortable in going. I'm sure since it's the first time you guys are meeting, he won't try to do anything at the movie. If you do take a friend with you, and shes by you, then he probably wouldn't try anything since she's there. Just try to be yourself and make a good impression, and I'm sure he won't hate you when you first meet. Be open with him, and get to the movie maybe a little earlier so that way you guys can sit down and talk about things. Tell him about yourself. You never know, he could end up liking your personality and how you are, and maybe eventually you guys can go out! If the first date goes well, I would suggest going out again. The more you go out, the more you guys might start to like each other! :) If you don't take a friend with you though, then I don't really think you'll have a good time. Trust me, you'll feel a lot comfortable if you have a friend with you when you meet him for the first time! It helped me before when I took a friend with me! If it's really awkward, then just get up with your friend and leave!!!! I hope I helped ya out hun! If not, then I'm really sorry. Good luck! Let me know how it goes! If you ever need anything else, just email me at PrEtTyKiTtY0428@aol.com and I'll try my best to answer any questions that you might have. I'm sorry this was so long.
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