i got this friend right, he has such bad luck with girls and all he does is try to show off for them but nothin works and he just gets blown off all the time..... what should he do?
Additional info, added Tuesday March 1 2005, 11:22 pm: my friend just cant click it with girls he gets frozen and stops talking and just sits there and stares and if he likes a girl he will occasionally drive by there house just to see if there outside and call him when he does.... hes a really good friend of mine and ive given him all the help i know and it just doesnt work... i really need help. Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? Karen answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 3:23 pm: You need to tell your friend that showing off for girls won't get him no where and that girls don't like that, especially me. If he wants to get a girl, then he needs to start talking to some and start being friendly with him. Tell him that he needs to not by shy and freeze when ever he sees a girl. If he is just himself and not someone that he isn't, then he will get a girl.
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Warnstedt answered Wednesday March 2 2005, 11:10 am: first, tell him to stop showing off. its unattractive and kinda annoying. as for the driveing by their house, thats called stalking, and thats illegal. i used to be the same way. it makes things worse when trying to get a date. just tell him to be himself and maybe set him up on a blind date with someone who is interested in him. ask around to see if there is such a person at your school, and then set them up from there. [ Warnstedt's advice column | Ask Warnstedt A Question ]
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 11:35 pm: He needs some talking to and tell him to be so self-centeredd. Tell him to talk about others and be more interested in other cuz it can be a pretty boring talk with just it all being about himself-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
Sherry answered Tuesday March 1 2005, 11:18 pm: Stop worrying about showing off and he should try to build friendships with the girls he likes, so the girls like him for his personality..and then after a while he can ask the girl out on a date [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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