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ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend 4 almost 6 months and i think he is the one. but sometimes i am like no he cant be the one and i just think and think about it and other times i am like i know he is the one. i love him 2 death and i know that will never change. but do think this relationship will last ?????? and is it right 2 think that your boyfriend is the one at a young age????? he is 14 turning 15 and i am 13 turnin 14
-confused
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your 13? i doubt it. i know you are like "aww i love you" but i dont think it will last FOREVER. you still have your whole life ahead of you. i am NOT saying you shouldn't "enjoy" your boyfriend you have to live these years up! and i'm sure you really do care about him, ect. but you really havent lived yet..you dont know the other millions of people you'll encounter lateron..dont set your whole heart on a high/middle school relationship..but i do wish you the best! *KaysEe
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I dont think its love, but if you think that maybe it is. But more than likely later on you'll find out it really isnt. Just dont let yourself get hurt.
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Don't worry, every girl thinks and has doubts about this when they are in a relationship. If you truely love your boyfriend and if he loves you, then your relationship with him can last if you are just honest and trust each other. Yes, it's alright to think that your boyfriend is the one at your age. It's normal to do this and every girl does it. If you think about it, you are young so you still have a long time to find a guy because there could be those times where you will be with someone else and think that he is the one. But your relationship can last and only you and your boyfriend know the answer to that.
-Karen
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i think every girl thinks that at times.. i dont think your like stupid or anything for it but i think your jus young.. but possibly it could last a long time.. i dont know how tight your relationship is or anything so i couldnt exactly answer that but if you guys have last this long then it could last longer...much luv dez
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well, its natural to have doubts, that means you really love him. But its very rare to marry a guy youve been dating since junior high. But best of luck, it is possible! Ever watched "Boy meets world"? hes been friends with her since they were kids, started dating at 12-13 then got married! Just dont run off and get married now ;)
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No one can really answer the question for you. Only you can know if you love him or not. That IS kind of young for finding your true love but hey, it`s happened before.
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You never know! Something might happen tommorow, but my teacher had a boyfriend from 8 grade till her junior year of COLLEGE!! So he might be the one! Who knows!! Dont decide your future now something will happen to let you know! I hoped i helped! xoxo BLONDE911
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it's just fine to think that, no one can tell you that your opinion is wrong.
that said, i dunno if it'll last, just because i've yet to see that happen, but i believe that it can. your best bet is to just be with him, be happy with him, and don't overthink things.
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it might last and it might not. i have no doubt you love this guy and he is probably an awesome person. but you'll go to high school soon and meet tons of new guys, and he'll meet tons of new girls. then it's off to collage and you meet even MORE people, and you might not even go to the same collage. i'm not saying it's impossible, just highly improbable. There is nothing wrong with seeing him as "the one" as long as you don't get carried away (making wedding plans, ect.) if you do keep thinking this way, if you break up you will be devastated and no one wants their heart broken because they were foolish (not that you're foolish at all for thinking he is the one, but if you do break up you might think you are b/c you could've prevented it) either way is fine and it's perfectly normal for girls to imagine things in the future, hey it's what we do! lol. But if he truly is the one, hold on like heck babe! I hope it all goes well in the future and i hope you end up with your one and only, who ever he might be! Good Luck!
Always,
Carly
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Ya, you can love him and think he is the one.
♥ Michelle
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No it won't last your 13, but if you want to imagine he's the one then go ahead. No offense but it is unrealistic to do so, but as long as it doesn't do any harm there's nothing wrong with it. All I know is there is no way for you to know if he's the one when you don't even know what you want in a guy yet.
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Well, think about it realisticly(sp?)...You are at a young age and will experience many different relationships. You can be in love more than once. And it doesnt hurt to think he is "the one" but you might be setting yourself up to get hurt. Things happen, people change, you might break up. So yes, you can think he is an awesome, great guy you want to spend the rest of your life with...but you are young, and things can happen in just weeks, months, years...so dont put it in your mind that he is "the one". Just have fun for now, and if something happens..it happens and you move on!
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