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I have a guy friend that I really like, but he's shy and I kind of want to leave hits that I like him. Does anuone have any tips for flirting, but not coming on too strong? I don't want to freak him out or anything... Thanks!
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something as simple as smiling at him can work wonders. the stare and look away when he looks thing is good too. after you know he at least knows you exist, (which by the way he probibly already does, but when YOU think he does its time for this step) ask for his AIM screen name. (if you dont have one, get one, shy guys will be infinately more open when they are typing and dont risk sounding like an idiot). if he gives it to you good. he will be shy and probibly avoid you for most of the -whatever reason you are in the same area- you will know with out a doubt that he likes you if, just before you have to leave, he asks you for your screen name. (but if he doesn't dont be discouraged, its hard to talk to girls). next time you see him online, talk to him, you would be amazed at how quickly AIM can break the ice even with the most girl-shy individuals.
f.y.i., i know from experience that this works. i was the shy one, and thats how my girlfriend got to me :)
ummm... if he doesnt have AIM, i dont know what to tell you....
good luck
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Stare at him everyonce and a while and if he looks back quickly look away. or also you could ocasionally say "hey" or somethin.
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it's called "the leg move" it sounds strong but it's very subtle and casual. if you're ever sitting next to him, like on a couch, pretend that you're bending down to tie a shoe lace (if you arn't wearing lace up shoes, pretened you've just dropped something) and as you bend down, casually place you hand on his thigh or knee as if to balance yourself. it's not too strong b/c it's very casual, but it will definitally get his attention! good luck! i hope it all goes well!
always,
Carly
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