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boyfriend plz help
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my boyfriend is like failing our grade and he cares but he just doesnt think he can do any better he always tells me he dont know how to study like his mind drifts and he said if he fails then he wants to just move to a differnt school...which would kill me!! because we wouldnt see eachother at all..so can anybody give me advice on what to do and help him pass some subjects (enough to pass)! please help! ill rate high!
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Tell him to get his act together, and that you know he can do better,maybe he just needs someone to believe in him. Help him study and actually pay attention to what hes studying, help him however you can. But dont let it get in the way of your grades, because if he wont try harder and your helping him more than likely he doesnt care enough to worry about doing better.
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You need to tell your boyfriend again that he needs to start showing effort and getting better and decent grades and he will stay back. Tell him that you love him and that him staying back will hurt you and that he needs to do better. You need to just help him study with him. Set up a little schedule of days where you can go over his house and days where he can come over to your house and study. Tell him to tell his teachers that he needs some help and he can stay after school and this will help him do better, eventually.
-Karen
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I think you need to help him boost his confidence. No body is stupid, everyone can study, but each one of us has got his own method. It seems that your boyfriend still hasnt figured out how he can really concentrate. Be the perfect gf and help him with that.
He has to start beeing optimistic, go to his place (or vise versa) and help him study if he doesnt mind.
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time for some tough love. set up a deal where you study together for at least an hour (or set your own time) before you do anything (making out, cuddling, whatever you normally do). then study with him. its ok, to sit close to him, let him put his hand on your leg, kiss him(just peck kissing) a little bit, as long as he is actually studying. after the hour, if he hasnt been studying enough, be hard on him, keep to your word and leave (or tell him to leave). even if you do want to stay, if you love him, you will do what is best for him. and if you do end up leaving, next time he will believe you and study.
few extra details: make sure you keep enough time to spend with him without studying; just having fun.
dont make the study time too long to bear, i suggest at the max 2 hours at a time.
his actually learning something will put both him and you in a good mood, you will probibly enjoy the time you spend afterwards more than you normally would.
good luck
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ahhh.. this happend with my friend.. she got a bad grade and whatever and her parents got realli mad and said they were going 2 send her 2 a diff. school if she didnt straighten upp.. so i talked with her.. i said listen you NEED to straighten up w/ school.. and ever since then shes doing SOOOOOOOOO MUCH better and im very proud of her.. just let him know that you care! maybe that will realize what he would be missing if he did fail~!! hope i helped!! lots of love..~rachel leigH~
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