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what should i do?
ok my boyfriend asked me this question and i dont know what to do. ok first of i am 14 and my boyfriend 15 (turnin 16 in sept)and well i have known him for 3 months but i have been going out with him for 2 weeks and everything has been going great except one thing.. MY PARENTS. out of two week i have only seen my boyfried once...y bc i meet him online and i talked to him on the phone then meet up with him at the mall with a friend.. i noe i shouldnt be meetin up wit guys online but i did it. (plz dont say anyhting about that because i already did it) my parents wont let me out of the house. my boyfriend gave my two things i can do 1) either wait until i am 16 and he is willin to wait for me and in the mean time we stay close friends (i dont know about that i am scared that i will never have a secondchance) or 2) keep going like this and see my boyfriend wheveer i can?? dont knwo what to do?? i mean sometimes i will probably be able to see my boyfriend once every 2 months and i dont want to hold him back from liking or going out with other girls.. does someone one get what i am talking about?? can someone please helps me out??? i need some advice on what to do?? and i cant fallow my heart it is confussed...
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i had tht problem before. my parents just wouldnt let me go anywhere if they my bf wuz gunna b there.so i snuck out alot and said alot of lies 2 my parents.but it wuz really hard for me. cuz i totally fell in love with this guy and i could barly ever see him. so i would suggest waiting until your 16.because he said hes willing 2 wait and that takes alot for a guy that can probably get another gf pretty quickly.it shows that he really cares about you.so my advice would b 2 wait.
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Sounds like you need to earn back your parents trust. Are you still able to talk to him or have they forbid you doing that? I think the only way you are going to be able to see him at this point if he comes to see you. I mean to your house, with your parents present. Let them get to know him too. :)
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Do you really trust this guy? You should wait until your sixteen, because if he's not waiting for you he's not worth it. Put him to the test. Or if you can't wait that long talk to your parents, maybe they could meet him. You'll just have to hope for the best.
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If you don't want to lose him and keep seeing your boyfriend because another girl will probably have him but I'm not saying it will.It happens a lot to people when they are in difficult situations.Follow your heart if this guy makes you happy don't let obstacles get in your way have a lot of confidence in you.I wish you luck!
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well it really all depends on how much you like and TRUST (<keyword) this guy. I've been going out with my boyfriend for about a year an a half now and if my parents wouldn't let me see him and he told me i had a choice of waiting or sneekin around an seein him, I would sneek around b/c there's no way i could go without seein him. So really it all depends on how much you feel for this guy. If I were u though and i was only going out with my boyfriend for 2 weeks, then i would wait before i fell too much in love with him b/c if you end up falling in love with him, it's gonna end up killing you b/c you wont get to see him that much. Hope i helped and Good Luck!!
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