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what do i do? Please help me..
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 2 years now and i love him soo much. Well we got into a REALLY REALLY big fight, and he said really mean things to me so I broke up with him and when he came to my house the next day we talked and he told me that he thinks alot different of me now and he made it pretty clear that he didn't want to get back together with me at all. I didn't mean to break up with him and I want him back, the problem is, he doesn't want me back. My heart is broken and I'm really lonely. He was my life, I was with him EVERY SINGLE DAY. I feel lonely and I don't have anyone I can really talk to about it. What should I do? How can I get him to want me back as much as I want him back?
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if he really meant the things he said that were bad about you1 then its not worth it! Remember this... the only one who is worth ur tears is the only one that will never make you cry!
~Allie Cat~
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First of all, I know how it feels to have a boyfriend there basically 24/7 and then a sudden cliff fall breakup so let me try and help you out here. Now, if he thinks different of you, ask him why and what made him change the way he thought about you after knowing you sooo well for 2+ years. If he tries telling you its because of the breakup, you need to reassure him that the reason for all of YOUR reactions was due to his arrogance and him being a jerk to you. Make sure he isn't turning you into the bad guy hun, if he is.. then maybe you deserved better in the first place.
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Hey there! It is hard, but you must move on. Don't waste your life on something that may not be gained back, you know? Try to go out and meet new people and spend time with friends. Hopefully, as time passes, you guys can talk to each other again and be friends. Also, try to control your emotional outbursts, and think before actually doing, because you may regret doing something in the near future.
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aww.. there is NO way he could have moved on from a 2 year relationship that easily. i mean your together EVERYDAY! ALL guys act like this!! he still cares about you!! hes just saying things of anger cuz hes mad right now. play a little hard to get. seriously that ALWAYS works!! DONT cry and ask 4 him to come back to you because that just gives him the upperhand and turns him off. make it seem like you dont care.. give him some space. and when hes ready. he'll come back. dont force it. good luck sweetie! = )
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This hurts to say, but you can't. It sucks I know, but you can't change the way someone feels. I can't say how long its gonna hurt, but on average it lasts about two weeks. My advice, move on. Stay single for a bit, re-evaluate your ideas of dating, because spending every single day with someone for two years is not healthy. Part of a relationship is appreciating the time you spend together after spending time apart. I'd keep yourself available for about a month, if he doesn't change his mind by then, he's probably not going to. My heart goes out to you, and I'm sorry it ended that way. Good luck, hope that I've helped.
-The Knight Owl
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The sad truth is, whether or not you want to believe it, he has most likely moved on. You said yourself he made that pretty clear. So you probably won't be able to win him back. Just remember he lost his chance to have a great girlfriend. You might try moving on as well. And hey, boys aren't everything. Catch up with friends or hang with your bro/sis. Try finding a new boyfriend if you are ready.
Hope I helped a little!
*emster*
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