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ok...well im really upset right now...usually im the person giving advice but not this time..well me and my boyfriend lets call him...bob?...and this girl...up lets call her paris?...idk..well im reallyy upset right now..and im sorry if this is long..i was going thru my boyfriends myspace and i saw a comment that "paris" left saying awww i <3 you too...so i was like huh..and i looked on her myspace and on her comments he left one saying...i love you =) hehee...that got me jealous..and i looked at "parises" pictures..and he left a comment saying...like dang your soo pretty..and im so jealous cse i know im not as pretty as her..and i dont get why but im soo upset..and i know shes better then i am..and she goes to him when shes depressed and stuff..and he goes to her..im just so upset i dont know what to do...
please help me =(
*broken/hearted*
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Well just tell him it bothers you n makes u jealous n if h loves u as much as he says he does then hed respect that and not do it anymore
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Guys flirt. I wouldn't be worried unless he really seems like he's cheating. Never compare yourself to other girls, it isn't fair to youreself, and only sets yourself up for lowered self-esteem.
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It sounds like he has got some feelings going on behind your back. He may say all those things (and mean them) but he can still have some strong feelings for this girl. Or this may all just be some kind of thing going on between them, like he was talking to her and those comments were the result. But I would think the first one is more of a reason. I think he might be playing you. Also he goes to her whenever something is wrong, shouldn't it be you he goes too? It just sounds too out of place to me with all this. MY advice, look for him to do anything with her, look for anymore comments on their MySpace's, and watch for how he behaves around her or how he talks to her, just keep track of him and if you can, try and confront her if you really think something may be going on between them.
Hope this helps and you find out what's up with these two.
-RYan
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hey! im really sorry to hear about this because its almost exactly what happened to me. My EX friend was talking to my boyfriend on the phone and they started talking about sex (this is what she told me) and he was saying how pretty she was and all this shit..so i talked to him and he said yeah he said that but he was just "horny" and i was like WTF!But i was so in love with him that i excepted his apology and now we're doing good..but really jsut talk to him because like me, you have evidence and if he really cares about you you can just see it in his eyes. If you need ANYTHING else im here for you
xoXo
p.s.- my ex friend was a SLUT and she will do a guy in a second, and she was in love with my boyfriend and just wasnt ready to do that like handjobs stuff like that so he wanted that from her.
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if he is really making you feel that way about yourself (that you're not as pretty as her) dump him! he is technically cheating on you.
dont stay with him, it will only break your heart even more.
find someone stable and someone who you can trust.
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Ok just comfront him! He if he telling other girls that he loves them and there so pretty you should tell him you know everything and that you guys are OVER!!But make sure you see if he really did say that because he might of been his brother or friend playing a joke or something.Good luck let me know how its going.
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Oh, i have been through All of that. My advice is to talk to your boyfriend about it first. Say, "Be honest.Do you have any feelings for Paris?" And if he says I don't know, or "kinda" or "just a little but I like you more." Then its time to break up with him. You don't desserve being treated like that and having to worry about him and her behind her back. To tell you the truth, he sounds a little fake to me and I would confront him about it before its too late and you're even more hurt. It's usual for guys to think other girls are pretty, but thats smething they shouldn't really say out loud if you know what I mean. Good Luck!
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