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Developed a need for love
Over the past 2 months, I've had 4 crushes. One of them I met online, she likes me too; one of them likes me as a friend; one of them I really don't give a damn, but I think she was hitting on me; and one of them is my best friend's sister. So, when I had a crush, when I loved, it was the best feeling of my life. I never wanted to lose that feeling, it was (I quote "What is this feeling?" from Wicked) "Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe". But in a good way. A very very good way. Problem is, I've lost the feeling. Good feeling's gone. I love no longer. But I want to love despaately, I really do! I want to keep the feeling! I want to be truly happy again! Advicenators, what should I do?
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The reason why you are not feeling the feeling is because your not in love.. you shouldn't try to find love.. trust me love will come to u.. just try to get your mind off girls and do some stuff with the guys..
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Alright then... I know from experience that you're making up feelings that you dont really have, but sum of them might be genuine. I would recommend getting to know your sisters friend better and see what happens... who knows?
by the way i read Wicked and loved it... good book
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You sound like me when i did drugs.
The drugs buggered me up (not talking about the trip), and made me lose alot of friends, and what you are descibing might just do the same thing.
That funky feeling ALWAYS passes and thats when real love begins. Only you can make yourself happy, NOBODY else. If you are counting on somebody/something else to do that, you'll never be happy for long.
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I know exactly how you feel. There was a point in my life where I had just gotten out of a 1-year relationship and I wanted that feeling again. But you know what if you keep searching for love from girls you'll never be satisfied. That feeling that you feel is a void. And Love is the only thing that can fill that void. But not love from a girl. Love from Jesus. Jesus Loves you more than you'll ever know. He even knows the person that your suppose to be with. And he wants you to be with her. Don't try and chase girls because you'll only get heartbroken and bitter. Live your life for Jesus and he'll put that special girl in our life.
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you should wait till you find a girl whom you can truly love and who can love you back.
my best bet for you is to get to know your best friend's sister a little more, see if you two are compatible. you never know what can happen! =]
good luck!
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