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My girlfriend and me are getting depressed
I met my girlfriend over the internet about 7 months ago. We started as a good friendship. So then I asked for her phone number. We talked on the phone for hours and hours. I started to love her and have really strong feelings for her. She did too. We did webcam and send pictures and mail. But things started to happen to me I started to feel depressed. I started to have personal problems with my family about it. I didn't care I know I love this girl a lot. I haven't seen her yet cause I'm not ready yet. I want to look good for her physically and in ma peronality. I don't want her to see an ugly me. I want to lift weights get taller and look good for her. I want to have money and get my education. Thats why I haven't gone to see her. I want to be for her inside and out. But is gettin frustrated. Cause so many guys have I asked her out but shes says no to them cause she waiting fo me. But I can't cause I went to get muscles and get taller and get ma money straight get new clothes and get ma education. So, then I can see her. But I don't want her to give up. I feel bad cause I want see her but I want to surprise but gettin muscles and lookin taller and being a person who can make her smile, laugh, make her feel good about us and look good for her. I love her a lot she is a beautiful young girl. She is cute, nice, hardworking, special, and comfortable to talk to. What do I do. I'm a male who is 17
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thats not fair to her at all she needs a real relationship not a cyber one n so do you. its not love until youve felt her kiss and hug her and and haveactually been ther for her and plus i mean its over the internet so how do you know she isnt lieing to you about things and makin things up. think about it.... your changin everything about you for someone youve never touched or seen in person. you need to give up on it
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If she loves you, then it shouldn't matter. Surprise her by showing her how hard you're working to look how you thinks she wants you to look. And you said you've done webcam, so she knows how you look. And obviously she likes it if she wants to meet you and loves you.
Just go for it.
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well i think you shouldn*t care so much bout all that other stuff and just meet her, she already knows what you look like if you*ve done webcam n pix so then she*s inlove with you NOW she doesn*t need the extras. If you make her wait longer more people will come along and you might lose her. Quit worrying bout how you look and just buy a new outfit or sumthing and meet the girl, she obviously wants to see you! good luck hun n hope i helped xoxo, chelsea
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firstly lifting weights isnt going to make up taller, and if she really does love you then your appearence isnt going to make a difference. just meet her, you both want to be boyfriend and girlfriend, there's nothing stopping you. if you keep her waiting so long she might think your hiding something, it's been 7months, if my boyfriend kept making excuses not to see me for that long i'd leave him because i'd think he qwas cheating on me or not who he says he is. meet her before she gets suspicious or has doubts about your relationship. if you both love eachother then nothing will stand in your way, if you want it to work then you'll make it work. but your relationship cant progress or go anywhere until you meet her in parson and date her for real.
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My best friend in school weight well over a 100kg,
suffice to say he was pretty fat. neither of us had girlfriends, but his personality was awesome, i envied him cause of it, he could have had ANY (nice) girl he wanted, but he didn't know it and wouldn't believe it, so he didn't get the girl he liked (which by the way turned out to have liked him alot too at that stage...too late now)
If she is worth it she won't mind what you look like or how much money you have, and the fact that she telling other guys to buzz off (FOR YOU)is a clear indication of how she feels.
You can gym while you date her, she might infect you to work harder (seems she already has), and you could shop for better clothes together...be carefull of shopping with a woman though.
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if she is really waiting for you, she wont care what you look like. "its whats on the inside that counts".
i say that you should just meet her already. you said yourself that you sent her pictures of you. and if she's still waiting for you after seeing that you're "ugly", she only cares for your personality.
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Why should you care about what you look like because havent you already shown her a pictue of you and stuff? And if she didnt like it then why would she want to meet you? And you say 7 months ago????If she wasnt interested at all then why would you guys be talking for 7 months??You already no her personality and she already knows your so I say met the girl!!
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