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i wish.....
I am kind of sad because all of my friends have a b/f and I dont...... I know it sounds child like but it has been this way for a year now... I mean I am not the best looking but I still want someone.... idk what I should do..... btw 15/female
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m8 i no how you feel, you've just got to either wait, or you go out there and meet new people, meeting new people nower days is dangerous from the internet, so be careful, but if you are online you can search for people who are local to you, either myspace.com is good, or faceparty.com, or you could hang out with some new friends, get your friends now to introduce you to some people, or their bf's mates, hope that helped..
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Usually boyfriends were regular guy friends at one point or another. Just because you don't have a boyfriend doesn't mean you are a bad person. No offence, but that way you have better chances of not getting hurt if something happend in a relationship. As for having someone to be there for you, maybe thats how you can start. Be there for any and all of your guy friends, taken or not. Try to be open and willing to help, because over time most if not all will see you as a close friend. As for looks, since when has that mattered in a relationship? Do you want a boyfriend who likes you for your looks or for who you are? If a guy can't see you for who you are and like you for that, then don't push for a relationship. Just be patient - good things come to those who wait...trust me on that one. Good luck.
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It doesnt sound childish, everyone wants to love and be loved, but before you can do that you have to accept yourself for who you are and realize that you dont need to have a boyfriend to be happy and to feel good about yourself. Everyone is beautiful in their own special way, and some day a guy is going to come along and realize how beautiful of a person you are. just hang in there, and remember having a boyfriend isnt everything. =)! xoxo
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Just be yourself. If you act a certain way just to have a boyfriend, then he won't really know the real you, will he? If nothing happens while you just be yourself, ask your friends how they got their boyfriends... you may get some ideas!
Good luck! :)
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hmm here's an idea. if you really do want a boyfriend, and all your friends have boyfriends, can't they help you find people? they're boyfriends probably know people that you could date. hang out with some guys. maybe that you juss met, er knew for awhile. see how you feel about them. go to the movies, mall, resturaunts, etc. you'll find someone.
good luck!
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Be yourself, mate. Someone will come. I know I'm sounding really hypocritical considering I asked pretty much the same thing, but still. Just wait. Your soul mate will come.
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Wow, I never knew there were so many people on here that felt exactly like I do. I know you might get tired of hearing this, but it shouldnt matter what you look like. All that matters is you are having a good time. I hear that alot and it takes a while to really sink in. For a long time I was hell bent on looking for a boyfriend, but then I just let it go. I just had a good time with my friends. I know its hard seeing your friends with their boyfriends, but just be happy for them. They too will have a time when it seems everyone else has a boyfriend and they don't.
Hope I helped. Rate as you wish. I'm just looking to help. :)
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You have nothing to worry about. All of my friends have boyfriends too, but I'm single && loving it! Sure, sometimes I get lonely without a boyfriend, but you still have plenty of time! You're 15. Most people don't meet "the one" until college. Sometimes even after! So don't worry! Your time will come. && in the mean time, enjoy being single! Hope I helped! Good luck with everything!
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Look you don't need a b/f. Lots of people dont. As long as you have friends would like you and you like them. It's even possible to have more than one b/f. As long as your nice to people, they'll usually be nice back.Be happy. Don't let something like not having a b/f get you down. As long as you see yourself as a good person. Best friends are a good thing to have one. When you get one, it'll eventually change to someone else and then to someone else as well. You'll have good friends. But best friends are hard to come by. These people need to to care about you on a very personal level and you need to to as well. If you show no one respect. No one will wanna be your best friend.
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Your not the only one. alot of male/female wish they had sum1. But you should just live your life 2 its fullest. N dont b sad bc you might feel u need space if you git a b/f
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hey sweety your not the only one in this world that feels this way believe me
there are so many girls/guys that wish they had somebody just because their friends do
i used to be like that about 2 years ago but i learned to live with it and i told my self my time will come and you should too!
your time will come you just have to wait
for now enjoy being single flirt with as many guys as you want and just enjoy living life to the fullest
you dont always need a guy to make you happy
but your time will come trust me on that one
if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥
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Never be in a rush for a boyfriend. If you are you will probablly end up with a bad one. When its time you will get a boyfriend. I`m sure that it does not have to do with your looks at all, but you just should be more outgoing, friedly and be able to talk to a lot of guys. If you find someone you like flirt with him.. get to know him better and just be yourself. If he is a nice guy he will maybe even start to like you and you never know!! Dont be upset though. Just have fun!! You honestlly dont need a boyfriend to make you happy and that is defenetlly true. You can have a lot of fun with out one.. even though I know that you would really want one. Just be patient. =)
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stop looking, because youve spent all your time looking, just stop and wait to be found, i know im not the best looking guy in the world either and i was found, and shes quite a catch. so keep your chin up, and be found.
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Try to hang out with some more guys/girls so you can meet guys! But being single is also fun u can flirt with any guy you want.I dont know, maybe your shy, but try to get around more guys so you can find the right one for you.
xoxo GoOD LUcK bAbe..plEaSe raTE~
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well get out and meet new people.. dont be shy about it..if you see someone who catches ur eye go up n talk to them..and like you shouldn't want to have a boyfriend, if ur not ready for a relationship, he might want sumthin to last and you might want him just to be like your friend..you are your own persondo whats best for you and not everyone else
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I've been there. It's really annoying. But that doesn't mean you should just at the first guy who's interested. If your friends seem to be hanging out with their boyfriends, talk to them about not bringing them around so much. Don't feel bad about yourself!! A lot of REALLY good-looking people don't have boyfriends/girlfriends. Don't worry about it so much. It's nice being single!!
Hope I helped!
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well im pretty much in the same boat..alot of my friends have boyfriends and i tended to feel left out and dateless..sooo i found a new group of friends to hang out with on the weekends and stuff, and i'm having alot more fun with them becuase now i dont have to feel like a third wheel!
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