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kissing


Question Posted Tuesday July 12 2005, 1:44 am

well it this me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 1 year and i asked her is i could kiss her and she said no but she likes to take it slow and i said ok and that was about 2 mounths ago should i kiss her yet or wait and if we kiss should i use tounge and is there a special way to use tounge


please help i need it in the next few days
-rockfan23


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SomeGirl answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 8:30 am:
well, it has been long and i think u should ask her again and if she still saids no ask her when she will finally be ready. but if she does say yes u should just start off gently kissing on the lips then you make the first move and try to work in a french kiss.

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XSugarPieX77 answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 7:31 am:
Dont use tounge the first few times you kiss, frenchkissing might make her uncomfortable. You have to ask her if she's ready or not to kiss.Good Luck!
~Brina~

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Lucid_PimP answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 5:59 am:
Your girlfriend is disrespectin you man, its a girls duty to kiss thier boyfriends. If they dont it means they dont love you. I bet she's kissed lots of boys, perhaps you just have bad breath or maybe you have wonky teeth.

If I was you I would practice on your mom and dad check with them that you're a good kisser, sort your breath out and then make your move.....if she doesn't kiss you she probably hates you

wise up

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SilentOne answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 4:16 am:
An age would be nice. It's difficult to say much without that...
With reguard to kissing, I'd generally say that you don't ask, you know. If you want a kiss, you have to make the right situation. Be romantic! When she's ready to kiss you, you'll both know, and neither of you will have to ask. Asking "can I kiss you?" creates a slightly awkward situation, whether or not the answer is yes, and especially if it is no.
If you get the feeling that she's wishing you would kiss her, don't fall into the trap of rushing. Only ever go 90%, if she doesn't finish it, then back off buster.
I don't recommend excessive tongue, it grosses a lot of people out. Apart from that, decide at the time. A kiss shouldn't need a pocketbook guide.

Have fun ^.-
-K

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redderthentomatoes answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 3:09 am:
how old are you? if your older then 12, and you've been going out for a year then you definately should be kissing. And if your gf has a problem with that, then im sorry to say, the relationship isnt going to work out. When a girl says that she wants to take it slow, that means respecting her privacy, maybe a WEEK without tongue action (or a little more, ok), and no sex at all untill farther notice, so dont even ask. Thats all normal. The situation you are describing is not.

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SaraLee answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 3:08 am:
WOW...How old are you? Like seriously..YOu should ask that in your question so more people will answer respectfully. If you guys have been dating for a year I think it is about time to kiss...Unless she is cheating on you and trying to play an inncocent role. I would just ask her and lay it straight. You guys have been dating for a year and you guys havent kissed- seriously that is sad.Not even a peck!. Just natrually kiss her..Not fast kissing incase she likes to take it "slow". I seriously think you need to check your girl though..i think she is messing around on you. PLEASE WRITE ME BACK AND TELL ME YOUR AGE...IT WOULD HELP A LOT!!!
xox, Sara

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