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ok so i have this friend let's call her kk ok so kk and i are really good friends and so is kk and our other friend lets call her taylor so we are all really good friends but kk and taylor leave me out like them just walkin and then all of a sudden they are just walking right next to each other and i am left behind and that really bothers me and then like a few weeks ago another one of my good friends lets call her lizzie ok so me, lizzie, taylor, and kk were walking and then all of a sudden me and lizzie were walkin next to each other and taylor and kk were walkin together and then lizzie got really up set because for one thing she is taylors younger sis like just a year younger and she gets left out alot but i try not to leave her out so she got really upset and went off and cryed so my friend kk went over and talked to her and scence all that all four of us are not aloud to be together at once (i know it sounds stupid but me, taylor, and kk are 13 and lizzie is almost 11 but almost 12 and she dose not like that same things as me, taylor and kk) ok so now kk is grounded from taylor but that dose not make scence because she can talk to me and all her other friends and scence then she said that she is grounding her self from seeing all her other friends and that hurt my feelings and now my mom said that i can't call kk even though i need to talk to her and tell her how i feel because i feel really hurt now because if she can't see taylor then she is not going to see any of her other friends and that really hurts me what should i do? should i talk to her when she calls and tell her how i feel or just talk to her like nothing is going on? and just to let you know i am a christian so no cussing please
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ahh. well that happened to me for a WHILE and i felt the exact same way you did. I would just talk to them about it. Talking always gets through to people. Let them know how YOUR feeling.
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YOu need to tell her (when she calls) exactly how you feel, no differnt, no faking. If she is a friend then she should at least try and act like she is listening...YOu know what im saying? If not then i have no idea what to do for you because my firends were the same way and i just stopped talking to them. I felt left out because okay... I have sarah, brittani, christin and mikayla. well brittani and mikayla had there thing then mikayla and sarah had there thing...well christin is like OVERLY huge and really hugly so she is always left out so we became friends but then she left me for brittani and then they all left me because they all follow one another...now its now me and mikyal because she dates my boyfriends brother and thats what brings us close AND THATS THE ONLY THING...im about ot loose her to because of how she acts...but i tell her how it is-and she listends...try that-sorry so long...i dont know why i wrote all that but i have to go
hope i helped.
xox, Sara
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ok...i would first ask your mom if you could talk to your friend and explain what you need to do to her...then i think you should tell her exactly what you said here ....if she acts like she dosent care then she isnt a good friend anyway...sorry to say but you need "nice" friend....hope i helped...bye
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