my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 8 months, and we havent done anything sexual yet. all we do is make out ALL the time. lately he has been asking me to give him oral sex, which i am willing to do. the problem is, i have never given head before and my boyfriend has never gotten it before neither. i know how to give it, im just worried that i may do something wrong and my boyfriend wont enjoy it. if anybody can give me any advice id appreciate it. thanks. i rate high =)
Nyx answered Friday July 15 2005, 4:00 am: Oh, Pumpkin... the only way you can go wrong is if you bite his dick off. But pretty much anything you do orally to a mans penis, he's going to like. And since he's never recieved it before, he wont be able to compare you to anyone else... so you'll litterally be the best he's ever had.
Word of caution before you give him head... don't go too deep too fast or you might hit the gag reflex in the back of your throat and vomit. Also, decide before you do this if you want him to cum in your mouth(and if he does wether you're going to spit and swallow). I know a lot of people that HATE the taste of cum, and have a rag right next to them when they are giving head. When the man is about to cum, he'll tell her and she'll pull her mouth off and let him cum into the rag. Other girls take the cum in their mouth because they think it's better for the man that way, and they get used to the bitter taste. It's all up to the individual. But BE READY!
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M_to_the_E_to_the_L answered Friday July 15 2005, 2:04 am: He'll be so excited that he;s getting his first blow job, he'll probably shoot no matter wehat you do... Just start slow... ask him if he's enjoying it every once in a while. Communication is key. If you can't communicate with him about sexual needs then you aren't ready for secual stuff. [ M_to_the_E_to_the_L's advice column | Ask M_to_the_E_to_the_L A Question ]
SaraLee answered Thursday July 14 2005, 11:56 pm: Hey all I know (from experience) is DO NOT grind your teeth..try to keep your mouth open as wide as you can, but unless your sucking put your lips together as much as you can but still have your teeth far far away...I almost made my boyfriend cry-lol...it was also my first time. Use your hand too-but make sure its wet from your saliva before hand because it will hurt so bad that he wont want it again...and just go in a up and down motion...HE'LL LOVE IT!
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icey0990 answered Thursday July 14 2005, 7:34 pm: i suggest www.talksexwithsue.com shes the expert..even has her own talkshow..she knows her stuff! she has advice on ALL kinds of topics..just go click on the subject of oral sex for a guy
im pretty sure that website will help out a lot..if it doesnt, inbox me
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