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14/f me and my boyfriend have been going out a little over a year now, and we both want to have sex. we're both virgins, and we are very eager to do this. problem is, since were "so young" our parents never will leave us alone. we never have any time to ourselves, which sucks. i would like to know if anybody has a way of doing this without our parents finding out. thanks (: i rate high.
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i would say.......go to one of your friends house when the parents arent home...
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Your young what if you do have sex and he leaves you the next day. you should wait till your older and know the person your doing it with is really the one( maybe it will be the same guy your with now) then you will really know! if he is pushing you tell him how you feel and maybe he will understand and if not he isn't right for you!
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Sneak him over when your parents arent there, thats what i would do. Or sneak into his house. You are really young and unless you are completely sure that you are ready and you and him both have discussed pregnancy and what could all happen if something went wrong, i wouldn't do it.
Maddie
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I think sex before marriage is wrong and by hiding it from you parents, if they do find out, they'll be hurt, mad, and have a hard time trusting you. Maybe if your parents are protective about it you should listen to them instead of try to get away from them. It's too bad you can't get any time alone to get to know each other more, but if you just want it to have sex then I think it's a good thing they gaurd you like a hawk! Also, I think your virginity is something very special you should save for your husband. You can only give it once to one person...so choose wisely! Sorry, I know it's not what you want to hear, but it's how I feel!
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Is nothing sacred anymore!? If I remember right sex was instituted by God for a married man and woman, not two 14 year olds who have been going out for little over a year. You seriously need to wait before having sex. It's something saved for marriage and that alone. That is the way it should be always, always! Jeez this is one of the reasons I do not like society today. Re-think this. It is sad that you don't get much time alone, but if you wan't time alone for that reason, then your parents should be around you everytime you see him.
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how about not doing it at all? you're 14 years old! sex is something you do with your husband or your wife. if you do it before you're married, then what's the point of it when you are married? it just takes the love out of marrige. if you have sex now, you're deffinitely going to regret it later.
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JUST SAY NO!!!!!!! Your only 14 who cares how long you have been going out with him you shouldn't have sex until your married what if you have a kid even if you use protection it could always break or get a hole! JUST SAY NO!
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Your right. You are young. Dont throw it away. Not now. Save it for like another year. Yet you'll still be young. But at least your a little older. If you have sex now. You'll have sex then. And then more later you may perhaps get pregnant at a young age. You may be thinking well condom will always be used. Well what happans if your both very eager to have sex later on and theres no condoms around. Seriosly think ahead before you do this. If you and your bf both love eachother. You'd wait awhile longer. You can get addicted to sex. So just be safe. And if your honestly eager.. one night sneak him over. Or when your parents are at work. Sorry for being all parental like-ish. Im just looking out for you even tho i dont know you.. but still :)-Princess trix
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