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best guy friend.
ok so my guy friend lives around the block. directly behind me. so i just hop the wall and go through his back yard and im at his house lol..well ive had feelings for him FOREVER. and last time we hung out...he later told me he thought about kissing me...when he said that i didnt want him to know i liked him cause i had a bf at the time so i was like um ew kyle..thats gross. but now we havent really hung out for a while..and i hope he still likes me. hes always busy hanging out with his friend..who happens to be a girl.he NEVER IMs me anymore, i always IM him now. whenever i ask him to hangout..he says umm...maybe. i might hangout with my friend..but ill let u know after i call her. he used to always ask me to hangout..ive already asked him if hes mad at me..hes like no not at all..so i donno whats going on..advice?
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Tell him how you feel. Sit him down, and talk to him. Ask why he hasn't been calling you or i/ming you to hang out, and suddenly he has a girl whose a friend. Maybe, he got turned off when you said "ew kyle... that's gross" and thought you didn't like him. Tell him your feelings, you don't want it to slip away out of your hands. Take this opportunity, that's all I have to say.
Good luck!
Morgan
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Just tell him how you feel. And tell him why you said, "Ew Kyle...thats gross." Then see if things change! If they dont just tell him the changes you have been noticing. AsH!
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Well, sometimes you just have to tell him because he could think things are strange now that you know he likes you. I mean tell him about how you feel because feelings never truly go away from the mind so let the guy kyle know you like him i bet you then he will kiss you!!!
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What probably went through his mind when you said " ew kyle..thats gross." Was that you didn't like him. Guys are weird if they think you don't like them then they will avoid you until they get over you. So if you and your boyfriend broke up then i think you should talk to him and ask him how he feels and tell him how you feel!
hope i helped
-twiSted
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knowing guys, hes probably just embarassed because he got turned down. you should tell him how you feel, and he will either admit he still likes you or at least stop acting so different.
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With guys its not easy to open them up. You wanna know if he likes you without puttin yourself out dere. You messed wen you told him dat kiss was gross instead you should have said you kno i would like to cause i like you alot but dat wouldn't be rite to my boyfriend. Den he should see dat you care in a relationship and dat makes him want you more. The reason he hangs out with another gurl is because he really wants you. wat you should do is apologize and tell him how you really feel. and if he doesnt feel da same way it wasn't met to be. he prolly wanted more out da friendship and realized he wasn't gettin anywhere so he stopped.
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i think that you should tell him that you like him. and if he has some rude reply like most guys say well i just wnated to let you know because i know that you used to like me.
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alright. well it seems to me hes avoiding you BECAUSE he likes you..if he just told you he had feelings for you..they cant just go away like that. are you still going out with your boyfriend? if so. its not fair for you to be going out with him if you like "kyle" so much. i think that you should tell kyle how you feel, and why you acted the way you did. because it seems like this guy is REALLY important to you..you dont want him to leave you without him knowing how you feel.
i hope everything works out! <3
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Ok keep in mind this may not be the case, but it sounds as if your friend is avoiding in the hope of the feeling for you go away. Try talking to again. Tell him you want to be his friend, tell you didn’t want to hurt him, but if you both engaged in such action in the current scenario, you both would be living a lie. (Only tell these things if they true!) Guys can be a little extreme in such matters (at lest the guys I’m familiar with).
I hope it works out
~Teen Guru
PS Let me know if how helpful I’ve been
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Seems like that girl friend maybe he's starting to like her... you need to talk to him in person and let him know how you feel before they hook up if theres a chance due to the fact that they are spending so much time together.So that way he will know how you feel and he can tell you if he still likes you or not so it wont be bugging you anymore.Good luck ♥ Kate
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