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I need MAJ0R help. Okay, I just recently have a guy friend named Josh. Josh is not cute - AT ALL but, you know hes SUPER nice & sweet. So I talk to him online a lot. He started off being friendly, then gave me like an HOURS worth of compliments, "youre so amazing and gorgeous" ETC..and I was flattered but thought he was just being friendly. Then he goes will you go out with me? so of course i start freaking out and being like, no i dont want a bf sorry etc. and he goes YOU JUST GOT PUNKd!! So I laughed it off. Then tonight I was saying how I want a bf so badly and he again goes will you go out with me? And Then i told him i just wanted to be friends, and he said this and I quote. "that is because you want us to be just friends, you could decide that you want us to be more than friends" I dont know what to do!! Hes NOT taking a hint at all! I dont want to break his heart but were strictly friends ! I like someone esle a LOT. What do i do?? (link)
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first of all thats really weird cuz i know someone named josh who is just like that.
well anyway, i would just tell him straight out what youre thinking, and stop saying it the nice way, because if he doesnt get it, then he may get his hopes up, by telling him no, he knows to move on.
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well im thinking about losing my virginity to my boyfriend... but im all about protection and talking about it first... but how do you bring it up? what do i need to know from him? also even if were both virgins... do we need to get HIV/ AIDS/ STD tested? also... whats the best protection to use... and where can i get stuff besides condoms? whats the best brand... and how do you know if im ready?
no dumbass answers please
ill rate 5s if you give good answers (link)
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first of all you still need to ask him about his history. see if he has done it before, and some people may lie, so going to your doctor for a test is very very important. some people are born with aids because their parents had it, you would probably know about it earlier in your life though when your doctor gave you a test when you were a baby, but its better to be safe than sorry. birth control pills and patches are also other forms of protection. and if you are taking them, dont use any medication that may cancel out the pills. but condoms are probably your best bet, because they seem more likely to prevent std transmition, and you are probably familiar with trojan. being able to talk about it is a good way of knowing if youre ready. if you cant use the word sex (like if you avoid using it and say "take our relationship to the next level" or something) and its weird to talk about it, you may not be ready. make sure hes ready before you do anything also. be aware of all of these things in his case too.
hope this helped. if you still have any more questions dont be afraid to ask, im glad to help.
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ok. well im really truthful about my feelings toward my girl friend but only when we are alone or in a moment. well anyways she doesnt show her feelings to me. It's only once and a rare while that she says something and I mean that is very rare. Does this mean that she's not feeling the same way about me as I am for her? Does she like to keep her feelings secret from me because she's afraid how I'll react
PS im 14/f (link)
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you can always start by telling her youre there for her and she can come to you if she ever needed anything. this can make her know you wont feel weirdly about it. she may just like to keep her secrets from anyone. i know i am sometimes afriad to tell me friends things, because if we ever got in a fight they could slip. let her know youre willing to listen and u wont judge her thoughts or anything and dont try to get it out of her, that could make her feel uncomfortable about the situation. dont pressure her into telling you
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k, i think i might be prude. i never do the kissing i mean i have been kissed but ive never kissed anyone. i always think its gonna be really akward. and i dont want to be like that ANYMORE! im going to dubble date with friends adn my bf tomarow and i want to do something about this. i want to KISS HIM! how though! how do i make it so its NOT at all akward? help me please i rate 5's (link)
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you shouldnt have to kiss anyone if you dont want to. it could mean ur not interested in the person enough to kiss him, you arent ready, or you think of kissing as a special thing and only use it at special times. if you really want it to happen it may not be awkward. if you force yourself to kiss someone, it will be awkward. when it happens naturally it wont be awkward.
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Me and my friend Jay have been very close friends since the 8th grade. We are Juniors in highschool now, and in the beginning of last year he became very attractive. I developed a crush on him, and recently it's become really intense. We've expressed some intress in one another, he used to like me at one point this year, and vice versa, but neither of us told eachother. (i found out from my friend). I've been itching to tell him how i feel, because we hang out almost every day and i just feel it necessary. But last week he told me, unexpectedly that he likes my best friend, lindsay. They never hang out, and if they ever do, it's with me. She already has two guys that she's with and it would bad of me to say this, but she really is in some way a slut. I don't know what to do. I've built up all of these emotions for Jay, and now i really cannot tell him about it. When he told me about his crush on Linds, i acted a bit weirded out and he caught on a bit. Since then we havent hung out or talked. What should i do? (link)
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i think your best bet is to just tell him. he may like you both, and if he knows you like him back, he might move on from your friend lindsay, expecially since they dont hang out as much as you two do, he may figure youd be better together. but if you dont tell him youll never know if he still likes you too.
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ok, i have a boyfriend but he isnt the hottest thing in the world. a few people think he is kind of hot, though. anyway, i have this one guy friend that likes me, and always makes fun of the way my bf looks. he is friends with my brother and myself, and lives next door so is at mh house 24/7 and plans on making trouble whenever my bf comes over. it's very annoying. any help?
also, a few other girls i am friends with next door want to meet him and i know they will not be the nicest about his looks probably. i'm shallow, and i know i shouldnt care, but any advice? thank u very much. goodbye. (link)
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if you like your boyfriend despite his looks, it means you arent shallow, it just means you care about your friends opinions which isnt always bad. you like him for more than looks, and this may be a quality your friends are lacking. you might even want to point that out to them. say it doesnt bother you at all if they dont like the way he looks, cuz they arent the ones going out with him. if they dont know him the way you do thats something you might want to point out too. you could ignore their comments, tell them to stop, or just turn it into something they wont be able to comment about. maybe confronting this guy is the best way to go
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i recently went on vacation with my family and a few cousins whom i hadnt talked to in a long time to california. me and one of my cousins started getting somewhat close, and i am ashamed to say i like him. eh. any help? (link)
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when i was little i had a crush on my cousin too. you might just grow out of it. just put most of ur attention on people it wont be weird to like. dont worry about it, dont make urself like him more, maybe dont hang out with him as much and u wont like him as much. if theres anyone else you like, go for them.
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ok so here it is.....
i really like this guy and i have known him for about a year know. He likes one of my friends and he always tells me how much he likes her. I dont know what i should do. Should i give up and move on or stick in there and hold on to him??
please help me
Thankx* (link)
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i think your best bet is telling him that you like him. if theres a chance he likes you too, he'll tell you. if he doesn't like you, then you know to move on.
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ok so my guy friend lives around the block. directly behind me. so i just hop the wall and go through his back yard and im at his house lol..well ive had feelings for him FOREVER. and last time we hung out...he later told me he thought about kissing me...when he said that i didnt want him to know i liked him cause i had a bf at the time so i was like um ew kyle..thats gross. but now we havent really hung out for a while..and i hope he still likes me. hes always busy hanging out with his friend..who happens to be a girl.he NEVER IMs me anymore, i always IM him now. whenever i ask him to hangout..he says umm...maybe. i might hangout with my friend..but ill let u know after i call her. he used to always ask me to hangout..ive already asked him if hes mad at me..hes like no not at all..so i donno whats going on..advice? (link)
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knowing guys, hes probably just embarassed because he got turned down. you should tell him how you feel, and he will either admit he still likes you or at least stop acting so different.
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