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my girl friend
ok. well im really truthful about my feelings toward my girl friend but only when we are alone or in a moment. well anyways she doesnt show her feelings to me. It's only once and a rare while that she says something and I mean that is very rare. Does this mean that she's not feeling the same way about me as I am for her? Does she like to keep her feelings secret from me because she's afraid how I'll react
PS im 14/f
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She might think that maybe she would sound stupid if she actually told you what she really felt and secrets and stuff. I know I feel that way around my boyfriend sometimes. But reasure her that you want to know and that she won`t sound stupid and maybe then she'll open up. Hoep I helped ! - Heather
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There's no way anyone can tell you what your girlfriend is feeling. What you can do is make sure that she knows how YOU are feeling.
If you let her know that you want to know exactly how she's feeling, even if she's confused about something, then maybe she'll open up. Be sure to let her know how important it is to you to feel like you both share your thoughts and feelings.
She might feel uncomfortable because you only share your feelings in private - after all, this could be interpreted as you not wanting other people to know you care for her, and that might upset her.
The only way any of this can be sorted out is by the two of you sitting down and having an honest conversation.
Best of luck.
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you can always start by telling her youre there for her and she can come to you if she ever needed anything. this can make her know you wont feel weirdly about it. she may just like to keep her secrets from anyone. i know i am sometimes afriad to tell me friends things, because if we ever got in a fight they could slip. let her know youre willing to listen and u wont judge her thoughts or anything and dont try to get it out of her, that could make her feel uncomfortable about the situation. dont pressure her into telling you
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Some people play thier cards close to thier chest, sometimes it's cause they are afriad of being judged or hurt, or sometimes its just the way they are used to acting.
Unless you talk to her you can't know for sure why she is holding back. She might just not be as comfortable verbalizing her feelings. Relax and ask her why she thinks she is that way.
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