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ok, i have a boyfriend but he isnt the hottest thing in the world. a few people think he is kind of hot, though. anyway, i have this one guy friend that likes me, and always makes fun of the way my bf looks. he is friends with my brother and myself, and lives next door so is at mh house 24/7 and plans on making trouble whenever my bf comes over. it's very annoying. any help?
also, a few other girls i am friends with next door want to meet him and i know they will not be the nicest about his looks probably. i'm shallow, and i know i shouldnt care, but any advice? thank u very much. goodbye.
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Well i think that you nor him should care what they think, as long as you two are happy together you know? and if they do start being mean to your boyfriend about his looks, you should sit down and talk to them about it, and tell them how you feel about him and tell them you dont apreshiate them making fun of his looks, If that doesnt help and they start making fun of you and him, i would forget about them for a little while. Dont hate them, but just give it a brake between you guys. Dont break it off with your boyfriend because of people, thats the worst thing you coud possibly do. Maybe dont introduce him to your friends. I hope i helped you a little bit. And good luck
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Kristi
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Hey, Just tell your little friend to knock it off....and if he doesnt I dunno...tell him you'll cut off his penis!! If your friends judge your boyfriend knowing that you like him they are not very good friends anyways!!
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Just tell him to back off. Just be like," I know you're only making fun of him because you like me. And it's not gonna change anything.. if you think it's gonna make me break up with him and come to you it's not ; it's only making me more mad at you..." ( not those exact words but you get the picture ) and maybe you could go over your boyfriends some more or go somewhere else...and with your friends ; they shouldn't make fun of your boyfriends looks because then they really don't seem like friends. But if they do, just explain to them how it's not all about looks. He makes you happy and makes you feel good. That's whats happening with me right now. Theres this guy I'm friends with and he's not very good looking ; but he's SO SWEET and SO NICE and FUNNY and stuff =) but anyways, hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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Danielle says ; The kid whos bothering you should just be told that its not his business about him and try to distance your self from him. And for the girls who wanna meet him .. if you're worried about his looks, if you like him thats all that matters.
Samantha says ; I think that you should definantly tell that kid next door to get a life, i mean he obviously likes you because why would he be trying to ruin your love life anyways? So yeah tell him to go away and maybe hang out at your boyfriends house more often, which you shouldnt have to do but if that kid is really that persistant then it might be your only choice. As for the girls.. if they wanna meet your boyfriend let them. And if they make fun of his looks or anything dont take it personally because how many of them have boyfriends and if they do how cute are they? But yeah just be proud of what you got :)
Hope this helps!
=) samantha and danielle
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who cares what anyone else thinks of your bf? if you love him that should be all that matters. if you dont take up for him and defend him and above all else just simply love him for him, then you just shouldnt be together anyway and you need to break it off. i hope you come to realize it doesnt matter what anyone else in the entire world thinks..because who does it count for in the end?
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Your guy friend is making fun of you because he is jealous because of your boyfriend. Boys will always make fun of someones boyfriend if they are jealous or feel insecure about themselves its weird but its their own way of making themselves feel better. and the girls seem like trouble but you shouldnt care because if you like your boyfriend your the only one that needs to like him (( besides his like mom or dad )) lol
Irishdude405
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if you like your boyfriend despite his looks, it means you arent shallow, it just means you care about your friends opinions which isnt always bad. you like him for more than looks, and this may be a quality your friends are lacking. you might even want to point that out to them. say it doesnt bother you at all if they dont like the way he looks, cuz they arent the ones going out with him. if they dont know him the way you do thats something you might want to point out too. you could ignore their comments, tell them to stop, or just turn it into something they wont be able to comment about. maybe confronting this guy is the best way to go
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The proper response to anyone who comments on the hotness of your significant other is "And this is important to you why?"
If they aren't dating him it doesn't matter what they think. Your brothers friend is a shit distruber and should be ingnored. Don't say a damn thing to him, any time he insults your boyfriend just ignore him and give your boyfriend a big kiss. If you stop responding to him, he'll give up eventually.
As for your friends. Cut them a little bit of slack, they want the very best from you. Don't bring up the fact you don't think your boyfriend is worthy of any magazine covers to them, but if they say anything just assure them that he makes you happy, and that's all that matters.
No bodys looks are perfect, and it's all a matter of taste. You wouldn't let someone tell you your music or clothes stink without standing up for your choices, so don't be afraid to stand up for your choice of boyfriend too.
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