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Will he end up hitting me?
My boyfriend is 16 and he has a anger/authority problem. His name is John. He has been to the jdc 5 times and boot camp 3 times. I was just wondering if you think that will eventually cause a problem in our relationship or if it could cause him to get violent with me?
14/f P.S. we have been together almost 2 months now.
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yah i deffinetly think so* i wouldnt want to date a guy whos that angry at the world and such. when hes 18 he might get in jail.. break it off
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annie
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Well if he's been to jdc 5 times and boot camp 3 times, it sounds like he can get very angry and stuff which would present a MAJOR problem in your relationship. And I'm sur ehe will start to get violent with you, so I would try to get out of this relationship as soon as possible before anything happens!! And I really wouldn't try to stay in contact with him, cause if he gets mad you dumped him, he could do something to you! =( or he could still have the chance to hit you if you guys stay friends.. so I just might wanna steer clear of this guy.. I hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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Well, most cases do have abusive behavor towards the girlfriend. I think that if he starts acting rude and demanding over you, you should leave him.
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yall are 14? just put his ass in time out or something, whatever it is you do with little kids.
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It's possible. If he has a temper, he might lose control and hit you. He must have a serious anger problem if he's needed professional help (the boot camp, etc).
Believe me, you don't want to be in an abusive relationship.
I think it would be best for you to end the relationship before anything bad happens, because just being in a relationship with him is risky.
Also, tell someone you know and trust about the situation so they can help you cope and stay safe.
If he hurts you, or threatens to hurt you, call the police ASAP.
I hope I helped, and if you have any more questions, feel free to leave one in my inbox!
♥ Manders
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ok i dont want you to get all mad at me for saying this or anything but i really dont think you should be with him. he doesnt seem like a well-behaved person i doubt you'll date very long so break it off and save each other some time. but if you reall really like him then follow your heart but the first time he lifts a hand to hit you, get outta there. <3
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He might, he might not. A wimpy geek kid with no past history of violence could be abusive. Trust your gut. If you think there's any reason to be afraid, get out.
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i think you should get away from him. It is a ticking time bomb. But the only thing im worried about is your safety if you do break up with him.Idk But tell him that his attitude makes you feel unsafe and that it is hard to trust someone with an anger like that. Watch yourself!
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Probably. What appeals to you about a guy like that anyways? This is not someone who had one lost temper and threw some things, this is a guy who time and time agian gets angry enough to get sent to boot camp.
He has serious issues, and despite that feelings all girls have that they can change a guy and he'll never get angry with them, it's a load of shit.
You can't change anyone who wont change, (he's been given chance after chance to change and hasn't seemed to yet) and if you are the closest person to him, you are first one to get hurt.
Be careful with this guy, watch out for yourself.
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sounds to me like if he gets angery enough he might possibly hit you or hurt you.. id get out of this relationship before you actually get hurt physically and emotionally.. ♥ Dez
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