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life stinks right now..
okay so basically my dad said he is moving out .. him moving out = me moving some place else because my mom cannot afford this house we live in .. what am i going to do .. im leaving my friend jen if i move and she is basically my only BEST friend right now .. because i dont hang out with any of my other friends because well i dont know why but i feel like im losing all of my friends and that all i have left is jen and now im probably going to move away .. this is so hard for me because i lost my aunt on christmas and she was my best friend and i cant deal with this anymore and i dont know what to do.. please help me ..
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try to talk to jen as much as u can when you move. my best friend moved too and we try to talk every day. Also if its possible you could visit her or she could visit you. You could celebrate you moving by having jen over your house one of the last days your there. you'll have lots of fun. just stay calm and dont worry about your dad. you'll get to see him too. this kinda thing happens to a lot of ppl so dont worry about it.
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When you move...you can start a clean slate and make new friends. In order to b happy...you need to think happy thoughts! AsH!
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Ok well im very sorry to hear about your parents and your aunt, but maybe you could convice BOTH of your parents to stay in the same town when they move. That way, if your staying with either parent you can still be close to your friends. Also, say your mom gets full custody, your dad would still have to pay a monthly child support to help you guys out...The thing is to remember to always stay positive ok. Keep in touch with Jen by like having her stay at your house every weekend or something. If you want anymroe advice IM me at Sammerz619. Hope i helped.
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Don't give up all hope yet. Usually even if they move out Dads have to help pay the bills. So, unless your mom just wants to move you may not have to go anywhere.
If you do move, it doesn't mean you will go far away. You may still be in the same school district. Even if you do you can still visit and call, email, write or IM with your friend Jen.
Basically, don't get upset about things that haven't happened yet. I know you are worrying but try not to get all worked up about things before they happen! :)
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I know its hard, but try and put a positive spin on the situation. If where you live now you're kind of moving apart from your friends than maybe a move would give you a chance to make new friends. As for your best friend Jen, if you dont move far away you can still maintain a close friendship! =) Keep in touch with her through AIM, phone, visits, e-mails. w/e. Remember to stay strong, and be positive through the hard times! Good Luck! -- Kate
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It is okay i had the same thing hapeen to me I moved far away from my best friend some good things to do is stay in touch with this girl
call her on your cell phone or house phone tell her to get instant messagenger and get on every day and make sure befor you leave to get her user name and her to get yours I am so sorry but were ever you move to you will meet new friends trust me I have moved a whole bunch and every where I moved to I met new friends and I bet you will to good luck
Love Your friend
~~~~~~Brittany~~~~~~ : )
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First of all: I'm so sorry about your Aunt. I know how it feels..=/..but what I would do is see how far away your dad's moving and then compare it with your mom, because whoever is closer to your friends and stuff then maybe you should move in with them. But if you're still going to be far away.. then I'd suggest just staying in contact alot with Jen. Try calling her every other day, or talk to her on IM/email. And I would suggest making plans with her at least once or twice a month or something, keep the friendship. And I'm also sure wherever you move, you'll make new friends too. Hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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well, you can move with your dad. and stay in touch with jen. adn i am sorry about your aunt. you will make new friend where ever you move too.
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Emergency Rx for a Fading Friendship
1. IM.
2. E-mail
3. Talk on the phone
4. Always make arrangements to do something
at least 3 times a month
5. Write letters
6. Never break contact
I'm so sorry about your circumstance. I hate it when I lose my friends. Hopefully my tips above will help you keep in contact with your friend. I know I'm not being too helpful, but it sounds like your friend is your best hope.
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I know what it's like to move. I lived in texas for 15 years, same house and everything, and a month ago i moved to Georgia so i basically left everything behind! what helped me get through it was just to know that God is in control, and that maybe if you move, He probably has a bigger and better plan for your life. It's alright to be upset about it, but just think of all the opportunites that will lie ahead for you.
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well if you do move .. maybe ull stay in the same town or somewhere close. & if you do move away you can STILL stay best friends with your friend now! and since you say your losing all your other friends just htink about it .. moving might not be so bad so u can make new friends! i wouldnt worry about it .. if you two are such great friends ull stay friends thru anythign! hope i helped!
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