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ex&bf...same place, same time
i broke up with my boyfriend of 3 months on wednesday...i told him we were taking a break and then when the time is right we would get back together. then yesterday, this guy asked me out and now we're together (we liked each other even when i was in the relationship but i wasnt going to cheat on my ex) but were keeping it low because it was definatly rushing into things. we were basically "together" for a while anyway it just wasnt offical. but anyway, today my friend is having a party at his house aand he asked my if it was ok if he invited my ex and i said sure, obviously not thinking. So both my ex and my current bf are going to be there. my bf is gonna wanna cuddle or something to watch fireworks and my ex doesnt know were together yet because were tryin to lay low. how do i prevent a big mess from become a HUGE one? please- anything will help!!
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You might want to tell your ex-boyfriend before then, so at least he won't be suprised if he sees you with your new boyfriend...
If you don't want to tell him yet, keep keeping it low... don't do anything in front of him that could make him think that you were dating this guy. Or just avoid him the whole time. Sparing his feelings could save him a lot of grief, and possibly an overly dramatic scene. If he finds out that you've been keeping it from him, he'll probably get pissed off (to let you know)... suprisingly though, guys aren't as sensitive as girls are about breaking up and going out with someone else. They could be hurt, but there's a good chance they won't show it.
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well anytime an ex sees you w/ your new guy then its gonna b a mess but you really have no choice but to jus go and deal w/ whatever happens...
p.s. you probly shoulda waited a lil while befor jumping into a new relationship...
jessica
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Dont worry about it tho. I mean your ex will find out sooner or later so let him find out tonight. Since you guys are'nt together you shouldnt feel quilty or anything. Nothing bad will happen because your ex should just understand that since you arent dating anymore that you can go and date other guys. If he gets mad or something then hes just being jelous! But have fun at the party! ♥//
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