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Friends and Guys
Ok, so I've liked this guy and I've liked him for at least 4 or 5 months. We are pretty good friends, like we hang at parties (if he doesn't have a gf at the time) and we talk to each other online ALOT. Well, he doesn't know cuz he's had on and off relationships and I'm scared if I tell him it will ruin our friendship. But that's not what I'm asking advice on. Well, I told a best friend of mine that I liked him a loong time ago, like when I started liking him. And I still like him to this day and this friend told me she has started liking him too. And she tries to brag to me about funny conversations they've had and I feel like she's taking what I have of him. and i just don't know what to do....:(...I'll take any advice you have...please...
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hey well if you told her 4 or 5 months ago that you liked him, lets be positive and think that she just forgot what you told her about him. if this is the case, maybe bring it up casually again and be like 'remember i told you i liked him, well i still do'
if she remembers and shes just trying to make you jealous then thats really stupid and she doesnt seem like a true friend. if hes around both of yall, then be the first one to go up to him, dont let her go for him first!
good luck & hope this helps!- :)
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Well your friend sounds like a stealer to me, since she knew you liked him. Id say go for the guy and ask him out!
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Ok,be calm about this. You've talked to him A LOTT longer than she has. Well keep talking to him and have funny times and have fun conversations. You have to be outgoing!! I think your best friend forgot that you like him...since it was a LOONNGGG time ago,she probably figures you've moved on,and thats why she likes him. I know how your friend is..they jump all over the person and try to make them forget about you..the EXACT same thing happens with this girl i know. You could do two things--
Have funny times and fun conversations with the guy..and maybe ask him out or dont.. Just remember hes just a boy and friendship lasts longer than boys.
Or you could play dirty and--
Brag back about all the funny times you had with him and say how awesome he is and how your makeing plans
Your friend seems kind of intimidating [[sp?]] dont let it get to you..be easy going,have fun,be outgoing!
I would recomend the 1st option.
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well i think you should just talk to her and say that you dont want your friendship to get ruined because of this. make sure you stay cool with her even if he ends up going out with one of you. you can tell her how you feel about it. you may feel like you dont want her to be with him but you've gotta be nice about it. just say you plan on going out with him eventually. i understand you feel like you have dibs on him. so,
good luck,
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Some girls tend to enjoy drama and this friend might just be one of them. I think you should just explain to her that you feel like she's trying to compete with you and you don't appreciate it. Remember that although you might have "dibbed" him first, you don't have claims on him. Just make sure she understands that you don't want to hear about their conversations. Noone can take away your personal relationship with someone else, they can only just try to make you question that relationship. I hope I helped and good luck.
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