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I dont want to like him..
My bestt friend in the whole world..talks about other girls a lot(he's a guy). And I keep telling myself and everyone else that all we are is friends because i know thats all we ever will be. but why do i get so annoyed/jealous when he talks about other girls?! i dont want to like him like that..because i know my heart will get broken. ive told him i dont like it when he talks about other girls, but he still does? how in the world can i get over him or tell him..well i don't know what i should do about it! pleaseee help!!
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Well if you dont want to go out with him at all then your just going to have to put your mind and thoughts on something else and stop focusing on him. If that doesnt work then sit down with him and let him know your true feelings becuase my favorite saying is that "it doesnt hurt to ask"!
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You know what i think? I think that he likes you,because i had a boyfriend,tom, who always talked about girls when i was with him. He fucking LOVED me soooo much! He like..bought me lunch everyday!! But he would talk about girls and i got mad,my friend told me he said he did it to try and impress me and make sure i would never give up on him,and make it seem like i was really lucky to have him. It also depends on how he talks about them.. dose he go like "i love this girl shes so cool and awesome"--that means he's sharing stuff with you because he likes you as a friend and hes hinting for you to ask that girl out for him or is it "this girl kept flirting with me today!!" --that means hes showing you how all the girls love him and how you should love him to.. he wants to be the big-shot around you
or dose he say -- " this girl asked me out but i turned he down because i like someone else" That might me he likes you..or someone else!!
If you no he dosent like you...and he talks about girls...then talk about boys!! Be like "omg ik theres this boy that kept doing this blah blah"
I say you dont tell him right now,but get more info,like what he talks about girls and how he acts around you..and other people. Dont tell him yet
if you want to,you could tell me how he says things about girls in a seprate question and i'll try to help !
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ohhhhhh you like him... you want to hug him... you want to kiss him... you want to hold him... k sorry just showing off some memerable ms. congeniality quotes :p well i think you should stay friends for awhile and see how it goes.. you never know.. he could start to like you ... :)
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If you like him so much why don't you try to just tell him straight up and forward because when you let some things outt in the open things can possibly change.How bad can it possibly get if you just want him to stop talking about other girls then I suggest you to talk about other boys until he begins to bug about it then ask him how he feels and bring up the way you feel.Well I'm done Good Luck!
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I'm sorry to tell you, but you can't make yourself not like someone. The only way to stop liking someone is to just wait it out. If you think there is a chance that you could benefit from telling him how you TRULY feel and you are willing to take the risk, then go for it. Otherwise all you can do is wait for the right guy for you to come along and sweep you off your feet. If your friend is not into you, then obviously he isn't the right guy. Just think of your friend as a step in the right direction to the right guy. Hope I helped and everything turns out alright.
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just tell him how you feel about him .. nd say u understand u couldnt be anything more but you wanted to let him know how you felt nd that now that he knows how you feel youd realli apreciate it if he didnt talk about other girls around you because it drives you nuts nd hopefully he will realize he likes you or respect your decission of not wanting to hear about other girls i hope i helped
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